What is wrong with me?

@vycess (1588)
Saudi Arabia
November 18, 2012 4:17am CST
It's really hard for me to always talk and be sweet to them, to the people around me but it doesn't mean that I don't like them. I feel that I'm alone and no body can understand what I really feel right now. And it aggravates this feeling because my dr.(my boss) did not go to work and he doesn't even said to me, I look like stupid going to work and waiting there. What is wrong with me? no body seems to really appreciate me that's what I feel.
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13 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
You are just thinking of things that doesn't really exist. You should to mingle with the rest of the people around you. Your quietness can be mistaken as being snobbish. Just allow yourself to blend in the crowd and let other people know you better.
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• Philippines
19 Nov 12
I agree, it's best to associate yourself with other people, a good way to start is by looking at them and smile, a smile can make wonders! it can start a conversation as well. The best thing you need to do, it to get rid off those negative thoughts and associate yourself with people around you. Try putting hints on small talks and you are good to go.
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• Indonesia
19 Nov 12
I agree, you just need to associate your self with the people around you, throw the negative thinking in your mind when it appears. just open your mind with the people around you with start a conversation as well you could. just you know, what you are is what you think.
@Danzylop (1120)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
I understand what you feel. It sounds like you are not happy dealing with your customers. Am I right? Please correct me if I am mistaken. What I see the best to do is to think positively. Just like when you boss wasn't able to come to work without a notice, he might be having a hard problem. That problem could get worse when he gets back to work with you who is having this kind of emotions. Talk to your boss with what you feel so he can do some adjustment.
@Danzylop (1120)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
That's unhealthy atmosphere for you. You know, when you show that you are uncomfortable with him, then he will do the same. So both of you wont enjoy the company of each other. IF you have the chance find another job and befriend them from the beginning. If you find any attidute that you dont like, just ignore it as long as it is not hurting you directly.
@vycess (1588)
• Saudi Arabia
18 Nov 12
The problem is we really don't talk to each other we just work. As in no talking pure work maybe I'm just being so sensitive and comparing others to us. Other drs, and nurses they are good to each other. but us? no, really... I've tried but it seems like he really doesn't like me at all even just to give notice about his absence.
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@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
18 Jan 13
hi, i think that was only yours feeling or maybe you were just paranoid in that situation,actually there are many people also who don't smile too much or even to smile slightly to other people,but doesn't mean that there is wrong with you.
• Changzhou, China
19 Nov 12
Dear Vycess, actually i am confused about one thing is that i dunt know the reason for aggravating your bad feelings of your boss's absence without a notice. He is the boss and has his own arrangement for work. All what we should do is to make our own schedule for our tasks at hand. As for the feelings of no respects and no appreciations from others, i think it's just your thoughts. Go ahead to share your happiness and sorrows with the people around you. Yes, we dunt need to please everyone. Be happy friend !
@nitinnair89 (2900)
• India
19 Nov 12
Hi. By seeing your post i don't feel anything is wrong with you. You just need to believe in yourself friend. Everything will be fine. Just stay calm and enjoy your life
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
You just only think that way, you push your friends away from you. You should mingle with them and talk to them I'm pretty sure they will understand you. They wanted to talk to you but you are like putting distance between you and them because you think they really understand you and they don't appreciate you. It's all in your mind!. Try to talk to them don't stay away from them. You should voice out what's in your mind, you should tell them.
@Danzylop (1120)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
You know, this is something I do before getting really upset. I do something like a confirmation to see if I really had the right thing in mind.
@lindsiko (355)
• United States
19 Nov 12
A lot of people are shy or have social anxiety that keeps them from being socially outgoing. Just try to do a little at a time until you're more comfortable with small talk. It just takes practice!
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
19 Nov 12
its not wrong at all,you are feeling just because of physological injustice,dont get worked up,just take a chill pil
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
18 Nov 12
well, just be who you are and don't think too much or be so sensitive. you can speak with people around you just say hi, hello, how are you? whenever you meet them or just smile with them. at work then i don't think people have much free time for a long talk. be busy and focus on your work, be friendly...i think that's all.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
18 Nov 12
hi, don't think like that, it will hurt our self confidence. We all cant be sweet all the time we are not robots. He do have some frustrations and feelings, so its never the same.
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
its normal to feel that sometimes. the least you can do is think that you are luckier than other people. all you worry about is that no one cares. but others worry about money, food to put on their table, family members passing away, all that sorts. just think positive, smile on every person you know. it will all be okay.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
You just need to be more attached with the people around you. Hang out or mingle with them. That's the only time you feel you are loved and appreciated. Sometimes, we used to think as if we are worthless but the truth is we are not.
@xiejiaotu (217)
• Malaysia
19 Nov 12
i feel the same like you sometimes. i feel like i am no body or they don't care me at all because anything happen or event, i will only know the last minute or after it had happen. sometimes i feel like i am out of the group and no one notice me at all. i wish to join them but in the end there is an invisible wall blocking between us and i cannot find a way to break it. this has make me feel like i have friends, but the friends just say hi only, i had never have close friend or best friend. everytime i feel upset because i am alone in this world. really unhappy to have this kind of situation around and i hope one day i can find my best friend in life.