Almost perfect

Philippines
November 19, 2012 11:55pm CST
I was a witness a almost perfect and almost forever love. Their relationship runs almost 4 years and both families really welcome and accepted their relationship. Yet they do have big trial and thats the distance. The relationship they have is long distance. Both of them are in college. So when a trials came they misunderstand each other and broke. It's a almost perfect and all who knows them thought that they end up together yet destiny strike and they broke up. Right now they have their own new life and relationship.
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15 responses
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
20 Nov 12
Both parties must accept the fact that they are not meant for each other. Parting is painful but they they are not fated to be together.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
20 Nov 12
some don't take parting as painful, in fact they enjoy more and be happy after breakup. I have seen such people. Its really hard to judge such personalities.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
20 Nov 12
Some who are always at loggerheads find parting a blessing. Their tears of joy mark a new freedom from a doom relationship.
@graysky (132)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
long distance relationship is really hard to handle,only few people survived it especially nowadays.but i believe if it is true love then no matter how far you are from each other,no distance can separate two hearts that is truly inlove.
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
yes, it's true LDR are so hard and the fact that they are still young before. And yes, if they are meant to be love will find a way.
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
If it's meant to be , it means to be and it will really happen no matter what. No if's and but's . They broke that means they are not really meant for that relationship and they are not meant for each other.They said love will find a way.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
20 Nov 12
that's what we can say "oopsies". they are not really meant for each other, if they do, it will already be "perfect". It really proves that nothing is perfect in this world. :(
@vernaC (1491)
• Romania
20 Nov 12
This relationship takes so much courage, love, respect and understanding. I'm proud to say my husband and I survived this. If you want this long distance relationship to work you also need to disregard your pride and communicate as much as you can. But sometimes, if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be.
• United States
20 Nov 12
No relationship is perfect and distance can sometimes hurt a relationship. Other times it can make it stronger. My husband and I have been married for 12 years. The first year of our marriage he had to leave to serve in Iraq for a 1 year with his troop. We just had a baby, just got married it was rough. So I understand where you are coming from. If it's meant for you to be together you will find each other again. Just remember that any relationship takes time,patience,love and work. I wish you the best.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
Maybe they are not destined for each other. They are not meant for each other. They maybe look perfect but we don't know what really happen unless they are open about it. They do have their own separate lives now let's just wish them happiness.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
It's not surprising. I have friends who I thought would really get married some day in the future, but right after college, they have problems with some issues between them from long ago that surfaced and they broke up. It's sad to see two people who you think really suited each other but get torn apart in the end. We can never predict people's relationship to last or not. People change and circumstances change.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
20 Nov 12
i have seen some of my friends, who were in relationship when they were near, but when the boy got good opportunity in another country ,the relationship broke after few months even after get engaged.
• India
20 Nov 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about this. Trust and understanding is very important in love to keep it for a long time, if misunderstanding arises, surely it is hard to keep up the relationship for a long, this story is a great example for it. I think they are lack in trust and understanding, so only their love is easily break up with the distance, if they have faith with each other, then no one have the ability to spoil their real love
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
20 Nov 12
Long distance relationships are hard.. part of being in love is being there for each other.
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
My first relationship an almost perfect one. But if you are really not meant for each other you'll never be. Even if you both try hard to fix everything and even if you wanted to time and tide really will tell. 4 years is still no certainty that you will be together forever. Even if 10 years is not certain. Time will tell everything and God has a purpose for all of that. He knows who will be the person we have to be with for the rest of our lives. Just don't expect too much because it really hurts in the end to know that he or she is not meant for you. Just enjoy the time that you both had everyday. Because we still not certain about everything. ^_^
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
sad to here that story..but that's life..sometimes we think that one person is perfect for us but the real thing is their is someone better than that we just have to wait and live life to the fullest..
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
20 Nov 12
when talk about long distance relationship, im not sure how far can be said i s LDR . im not so sure mine is LDR or not. they still can see each other, drive 8hr to meet. now they are still happy married couple with 4 children. it was my cousin
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
Not all relationships that start well do end like that of a fairy tale. If this happens, who should we blame? Is it because of the circumstances or their lack of trust towards each other? But sometimes, the reason would be , they might be not meant foe each other and the reason why they have ever met was to have enough experience and learn from it so that they may become a much better person for their next relationships.