How do you handle someone who is always putting everyone down . .and who is ..
@littlefranciscan (18327)
United States
November 21, 2012 11:30am CST
I have encountered someone who with every sentence is tearing others apart. .They are forever gossiping.. Finding fault with people of other races and simply backbiting at every opportunity they get.
Moreover they come to someones house, who is not their own..and literally take over. The person's cell phone rang and that person.. who is always finding fault and back biting grabbed the cell phone and turned it off.. IT wasn't theirs. .They take over the house like it's theirs.
I hate being around when they are around as they are a constant cloud of negativity .. complaining, cursing and finding fault. I really hate when they belittle immigrants and find fault with people who are not of their race..
Joy
6 responses
@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
Actually, I avoid this kind of person because it is written, "bad company corrupts good character." At the end, if you are always with her, you will be like her too. You might be influenced so it's better to avoid that kind of person. Pray for her too that she will change or directly talk to her that what she is doing is bad.
Have a nice day!
@cynthiann (18612)
• Jamaica
21 Nov 12
This person should not be allowed in the house period as they are not a friend. Don't take this kind of backbiting b*tchiness from anyone. You are a child of God so you deserve to be treated better than this. This person possesses nothing named manners and has no social graces. why would you want such a toxic person in your life? They do n ot mean yu well.
@averygirl72 (38848)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
I knew someone who acts like that. I hate it when they go to your house and like the house is theirs and they are literally taking it over. Mind you their intention is just to sabotage you. They love diminishing other people, it gives them security and happiness even if you are not doing anything bad to them. They would enter your house and violate your personal rights over your territory and feels that they have the power to exert their will against you. Their are negative clouds of people just ignore them.
@vernaC (1491)
• Romania
21 Nov 12
I don't like these kind of poeple either. As much as I can, I
just stay away from them. If they're around me,I just listen to
their stories and try not to comment. most of the times if
you comment or participate in their discussion, you will be
blamed at the end. So better stay away from them.
