I look like a mess when I get sick!

@besweet (9831)
Ireland
November 21, 2012 6:55pm CST
Every time I don't feel well and stay at home, I look like mess! I wear many layers of clothes and pj's, I don't make my hair and I carry tissues everywhere I go to blow my nose. I wear my sleeping clothes all day and my slippers. I don't want anyone to see me like that! I change clothes only if I have to go out for medicine or to get some food. Do you look after your look when you are sick?
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@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
23 Nov 12
My husband and family would teach me that I look like a good girl whenever I'm sick. I guess it's the fragility of the look plus the doe-eyed look whenever I feel so vulnerable does the trick, lol! I guess looking bad is more of because we feel bad. It's just a reflection of how lousy we feel. And I think we tend to care more on feeling better than our looks, but I know some people who just can't wake up without putting on make up despite the fact that they are burning with fever.
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@besweet (9831)
• Ireland
23 Nov 12
I couldn't stand to put make up on my face when I feel sick. But it's true that after I take a warm bath when the sickness is over, I feel wonderful and clean and my mood changes immediately!
@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
23 Nov 12
Sorry, auto-correct! Should be "tease".
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@Mavic123456 (21891)
• Thailand
22 Nov 12
of course not. but when I was confined in the hospital I brought my lipstick with me, aside from the chapping lips I didn't like my visitors to see pale lips too as if I was in a serious condition.
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@besweet (9831)
• Ireland
22 Nov 12
One of my best friends was in the hospital this summer for a surgery. Her sister had brought her lipstick and some blush to make her look and feel better! This really cheered her up, so I think it was a good idea!
@Mavic123456 (21891)
• Thailand
23 Nov 12
It never fails.
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@CarlHalling (3617)
• United Kingdom
22 Nov 12
Man with cold? - This guy (actually crh a few years ago now) looks as if he's got a heavy cold, doesn't he...
I was sick recently, I had a heavy cold which made me feel awful. I think I can recall working hard to look as good and feel as comfortable as possible, because I already feel awful. So, I think I kept very clean; wore light clothing (I hate heavy clothes); shaved; tried to eat OK...of course I only had a cold, if I was a good deal sicker I may not have been so scrupulous in keeping up appearances. But I never like to let myself go, even if I don't have to go anywhere. And even when I'm sick. That said, I didn't look that great! My hair is pretty long right now, and I've been meaning to get it cut, but that's not been possible, and of course, I've not washed it for a goodly amount of time either, and the cold simply extended that time. And my eyes must have looked red-rimmed and heavy with cold. When you're sick, you hever look your best, to say the least!
@besweet (9831)
• Ireland
22 Nov 12
It needs a lot of effort to do what you have done! I like heavy clothes when I am sick and right now I am wearing 4 layers and a scarf! I guess the same happens to everyone, I feel weak and I am not in the mood to think about how I look! Staying at home might be worst because if I had to go out I would force myself at least to do the basics!
• United Kingdom
1 Dec 12
I hope you're over your cold now. Thanks for best response!
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
22 Nov 12
I am sick right now. However I am at work too. I will dressed properly so that I do not look sick. When I do not look sick, I felt better. Some positive attitude at play. I normally try to forget that I am sick by watching funny cartoons and stay happy. Take medication, drink plenty of water and rest. I hope I can get well very soon because next week I will have quite a number of task to do. I also do not want to spread my flu to others.
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@besweet (9831)
• Ireland
22 Nov 12
I took a couple of days off work to stay at home and feel better. Also, I didn't take any medication yet since I am not heavily sick yet. But if I had to go to work, I would take care of my appearance too, and I would probably take some medicine to stay strong for the day. Get better soon!
@JamesKYTan (1605)
• Malaysia
22 Nov 12
I look horrible when I am sick. I tend to sleep on the bed with boxes of tissues. My wife will buy me porridge and asked me to eat, later take medication. At times she will grumble because she said I will spread to her. So, an apple a day - may we stay healthy everyday!
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@besweet (9831)
• Ireland
22 Nov 12
My boyfriend has seen me only once when I was sick and he is still with me! lol It's normal, we all get tired and weak during sickness! Apples can save us :)
• United States
22 Nov 12
When I am sick, I generally don't care. No one can judge you then! However, sometimes when I am on the "road to recovery", I find that showering and changing into still comfortable, but nicer clothes helps me feel better. When I have to go out for medicine, I just bundle up my mess and don't worry...after all, if I am getting medicine, people should know why I look like a mess ;)
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@besweet (9831)
• Ireland
22 Nov 12
Haha :) You are so lucky! I have to walk in front of my local coffee shop in my neighborhood to go to the pharmacy. So I might try a bit more with my appearance if it's a busy time during the day! During recovery it might be beneficial to take a bath and change to better clothes because it gives us the idea that we are back to normal and the recover is quicker!
• United States
22 Nov 12
Yeah, I am lucky that not a lot of people in my neighborhood know me AND that people in my neighborhood also dress however they want so I don't look so crazy even if I am messy.
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@cgicale (137)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
Hi friend, I think everyone doesn't really look good when we are sick. I myself doesn't really care about my looks when I'm sick. Specially when I'm really feeling very bad, that I can't even stand on my own feet. I can't think of how I look when I feel very bad. All I can think of is how I feel and when will I get better. The most important thing I want when I am sick is to really get better.
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@besweet (9831)
• Ireland
22 Nov 12
I feel the same, but I am thinking abou it when I get better! The day when my sickness is almost gone and I look in the mirror to see how bad I look! Then I will have to take a bath and make my hair and wear my every day clothes! This makes me realise that the sickness is over and I am back to my normal life! :)