Relationship Problems?

Philippines
November 23, 2012 7:26am CST
In a relationship we need Communication and Compromise so the relationship will work out fine. and .... No playing games. No scheming, no plotting. Talk to bf/gf directly about what we are feeling. Never be stubborn, either. Be willing to make changes for each other within reason. For a relationship to work and be successful, both need to show love, respect and appreciation through constant verbal communication. To grow and be part of a successful relationship, both need to practice the art of give and take with balance. Compromise is not letting the other do whatever in order to keep peace. Compromise is about finding a win-win situation for both. If bf/gf aren't exercising Communication and Compromise that will be our problem to our relationship either won't last very long or won't be strong enough. Communication + Compromise = Loving Relationship :))
6 responses
• United States
23 Nov 12
I totaly agree wuth you.if there is no communication how are you to know something is gone wrong in a relationship.but you also need to be willing to change and adapt to any situation with your partner.
• Philippines
23 Nov 12
I agree with you as well, we have to change and adjust for our partner just like give an take.
@Jennlee3 (292)
• United Kingdom
4 Jan 13
I agree with you. Communication and compromise will take you very far in a relationship. Good and effective communication can pretty much tackle any problem that may present itself in a relationship as I've seen with my partner. Even when one of us has an insecurity or an issue, we just sit down and talk about it calmly and respectfully listening to the needs and desires of the other and we are able to settle it quickly. I agree these two things are paramount to a lasting relationship.
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
indeed! you have the best idea on a relationship. I think that is most of the people nowadays lack in having relationship.Since whenever we have misunderstandings or problem with each other, talking is the easiest way to fix things out.Tell them what you really feel, tell them what you need, what you want, so that each of us will understand one another.
• India
23 Nov 12
Hi friend, you are right. Love must includes a proper understanding. Compromises are quite common in love and both of the lovers must avoid their EGO and adjust with others to keep their relationship in a good manner. Some persons are not interested in compromising with their lover and wish their lover must be compromised with them, mostly this kind of persons having EGO and don't adjust with their beloved ones, this kind of activities and attitudes will cause some unwanted issues between relationship. There is nothing wring in compromising with our beloved one, but don't expect your lover must always compromise with you, you too compromise with them in some sort to keep your relationship in strong manner. Little adjustments and compromising activities will keep your relationship for a long time. Avoid quarreling with your beloved person for silly things, some times this kind of silly fights may results in broken relationship. Real and sincere love don't give more importance to the faults and mistakes and compromise with the beloved person's mistake. In fact true love have the ability to change a person in a good manner and rectify the mistakes. Both of the persons who are in love must have a good understanding with each other and know to compromise with each other. They must avoid EGO and silly clashes due to it. Give the equal importance to their beloved person and always treat them equally to avoid quarrels. Compromise is a part of love. We must realize it and try our maximum to adjust with our beloved one. If they are wrong, we must tell it to them and adjust with them for them for silly mistakes, this kind of compromising activities will increase the depth of the relationship. If you don't have the ability to tolerate some of your beloved persons activities, just tell it to them and suggest them to change this activities. Surely they will change it for your sake. This kind of little adjustments are quite common and give more bond between lovers. Try your maximum to adjust and compromise with your beloved ones to keep your relationship in a good manner for a long time. Sincere love have the ability to compromise with their beloved person and change their mistakes. There is nothing wrong in adjusting with our beloved ones and making compromises with them to strong the relationship.
@benchao (43)
• China
23 Nov 12
yes,i agree with you,and i need relationship.
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
I strongly agree :) both needs to learn to practice compromising and communicating