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United States
November 25, 2012 3:40pm CST
So I started a discussion called the wedding is off earlier. And I must say I got some good advice and not so good advice. But it's my decision and I've decided that I'm gonna continue to have my man back and try to work things out then if it don't work I could atleast say I tried.it's better to have lost then to never have love at all.some may say ima fool and most may say I'm stupid but yes I was hurt earlier but I was mostly shocked.but we talked and came to the decision that neither of us is ready to move on so ima just keep on trying have a good day mylotters
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@angelsmummy (1696)
25 Nov 12
I saw that discussion but didn't think there was much I could say to help your situation. IM glad you have made your mind up, but I guess that's love for you, being g prepared to put up with things because you are head over heels. I would recommend marriage to everyone, but you need to find the right person. If your man is right for you just set boundaries. Good luck!!
• United States
25 Nov 12
Thanks so much for your comment and advice I will keep it in mind
26 Nov 12
Anytime, whatever works for you right?
• United States
30 Nov 12
Yes but ima just follow and trust my heart some people need love or wateva
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
26 Nov 12
Hi, Mrshubert13! I know that you are in a tough situation right now. But am praying that everything turns out well for you.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
26 Nov 12
No worries! I will pray for you to have a peaceful mind and heart. Just hang on!
• United States
26 Nov 12
Thanks @jenny I really need prayer hopefully everything works out for the best
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
26 Nov 12
I hope you write that line big somewhere or better everywhere, no matter if the two of you will make it: At least I can say I have tried! It's better to have lost then never had love? You had love, you lost so.. this is not really making sense or? I hope it all will work out fine with you and if not.. remember you tried. I also hope that you won't say if that moment is there you gave the best years of your life, you are too old to start something new, too broke to trust anyone again or to find a new love in your life. Don't forget about your own needs, goals, your own friends, since you might need them as well to go on. Good luck to you.
• United States
27 Nov 12
What I meant was that I'd rather take a chance with love then to never experience love then to never be able to know wat love is.who ever dont like my decision den o well it's my choice and my experience I'm just trying to make cash so ima keep posting and ima still give my man a chance
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
26 Nov 12
I think you are right! there is no harm in trying and you'll never know what will happen if you do not try. At least you do your best to fix things out even if you only have a little hope. And if it doesn't work out then that is the time you need to move on,You did your part and that is good. i hope that you will fix this things between your partner.
• United States
30 Nov 12
I got to try because if I just give up then why bother wasting tears but yes I'm in love so holding on is better then just running away
• Philippines
26 Nov 12
I do believe that true love will always lead the way and love always brings anyone good things. Whatever your decision will be is up to you. I am not agreeing with you but I agree with your outlook that it's better to try than to be sorry for all of your life. You are not fool definitely! You are just inlove and you have this faith in love that no one must contradict! Whatever happen to this 'endeavor' of yours, I am surely knows that a lesson will be gain... ;)
• United States
26 Nov 12
Thank you so much for your comment I really appreciate it
@Mary64 (3)
• United States
27 Nov 12
look girl marriage is way I make of it and any relationship understanding is the best policy after 27years of marriage I should know
• United States
30 Nov 12
I agree
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
25 Nov 12
Ok whatever your decision is, could be the best for you. You know yourself better. Hope your happiness the second time around.
• United States
25 Nov 12
Yes it is my choice but me and him didn't break up he called the wedding off and thanks for your comment and advice or wateva you CALL it