Do you share towels with family members?

@mommyboo (13174)
United States
November 26, 2012 12:30pm CST
Are you a towel sharer or are you selfish with your towels? I never thought about this before but I heard it discussed on a radio show and the results were a little neurotic. Personally, I don't do it that often but it doesn't bug me, the towels are always dry by the time either/any of us uses them. What I discovered by listening to the callers is that 90% of the callers - practically all of them - considered sharing a TOWEL something like eating a meal off the floor! Most of them were completely disgusted with the idea, some couples even having their very own TOWEL SETS and not sharing the sets! I don't actually even have a towel set, I have a variety of bath towels that I have bought over the years and I just keep a stack of clean ones around to grab. Do you share your towels or do you keep YOUR TOWEL under lock and key and give the death ray glare to anybody in your household who might touch it? What about babies and small kids? If you don't share towels, do you have the kids share towels?
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@ShyBear88 (59282)
• Sterling, Virginia
26 Nov 12
I don't see a big issue with it at least for me sharing towels is like sharing clothes or food. we all share the same germs so why not. If the towel isn't soaking wet then yes I'll use someone else towel or I'll use my own and someone else will use it. A lot of times we will hang our towels out after being used till it's been used twice.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
3 Dec 12
I actually do the same thing... if the towel is dry, who cares. I've never been neurotic about my towels, BUT when I have company I am careful to make sure they always have fresh towels.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
4 Dec 12
I guess I am just so comfy with my little family that we don't really think about it in such detail. When I heard the radio show people discussing this I was actually VERY curious to hear the results of their poll. I am finding the results of MY poll here to be pretty informative as well. I never realized what a big deal this is! Then again - we aren't sickies, none of us have any chronic health conditions or hardly ever get sick - and we also don't get particularly dirty, I do work out a lot but that means I shower often too.
@ShyBear88 (59282)
• Sterling, Virginia
3 Dec 12
We never have guess over so I don't really have to worry about that. Everyone is family in my house we all share the same dna. When we do have people over there is always a clean towel in the hall way bathroom on the main floor to be used.
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
26 Nov 12
I have all the clean towels in the bathroom. If someone is taking a shower he/she will use a clean towel. After that we will wash it. There is only 1 towel we share and that is the one we use to dry our hands after washing our hands. We will only share a towel if there is just one, so in cases of high need. I also don't think it's hygenic. I would not like to use the towel of one of my daughters if she has her period and I would not let them use mine either. BTW there are plenty of other reasons why not to use someone elses towel (skin diseases, acné, herphes, etc).
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
3 Dec 12
Acne is spread by using a towel? Or are you just considering the fact that someone might have it and wipe their face on a towel? Obviously it's not a good idea to share if you are on your period or someone is known to have an active infection of any kind. I hear all the time that it's not good to share makeup, and that may be why, since you wouldn't be sensitive to your own bacteria but you might be sensitive to someone else's.
• Nigeria
27 Nov 12
no, i used separate towel...
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
I am really not that picky if it is with my husband.. i do have my own towel lol but he do get them and use them sometimes.. but i really do not mind as i know how clean my husband is and i have extra dry sets ready.. so it is ours both to share.. as for my kids, i am particular with them, i make it a point they have ones for them and i told them never to use just anyone's towel..
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
10 Dec 12
I guess it would be a bit more of a concern if the older two were still at home, I think I might be choosy about each of them having their own towels. I guess I am more laid back about it because we only have one at home now.
@deazil (4723)
• United States
26 Nov 12
There's only two of us in my house but no, I won't share a towel. We have plenty of towels and I'm not sharing. I have a roll of paper towels hanging in the bathroom if anybody needs to dry their hands.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
3 Dec 12
Yes, it seems there is a huge emphasis on sharing that may be somewhat..... bad . I have paper towels in the kitchen but not the bathrooms.
• India
26 Nov 12
In my house every individual has his/her own towel, no one shares or uses another persons towel. While travelling also I like to carry my own towel and it is true that I don't like sharing my towel with others. I get annoyed if I come to know someone else has used my towel, especially if the person is a outsider or a guest. Generally when a guest arrives at our place we offer him/her a towel i.e. during his/her stay at our place.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
3 Dec 12
I bring a towel with me when traveling if I know I am staying in someone's home - just in case. If I know I will be staying mostly or always at hotels, I just use hotel towels. If I'm camping or might have to sleep outside or a tent or in a gym or in a van or in my car, then I bring baby wipes, a washcloth, a hand towel, and TWO bath towels lol. I think it's not very nice for someone to just use another person's towel without asking. I'm seeing multiple posts from people who NEVER share towels, even with family members, so clearly it's a big deal. When traveling, I would never use another person's towel and I would hope they wouldn't use mine and then not say anything. I don't mind my husband or my daughter but we live together. I don't think either of them would be too happy to find out a stranger used their towel, nor would they want to share with a stranger.
@rubrub (166)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
i used to share towels when i was still living with my parents. my brothers and i are sharing towels that time and we had no problem about it (since we all know that all of us are not really dirty or something and we don't have an illness that can be pass :) but now, my wife's family seems to be sensitive to such issue. they don't wanna share towels with anyone from the family. everyone has their own towel and is not allowed to touch other's towel. well, i don't really care about that. as long as i have a towel to use then im fine with that :)
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
10 Dec 12
I wonder how people manage this if they feel differently about towels. My husband and I USUALLY have our own towels but it's not like we have a fit if we use each other's. Same with our daughter. I know when the older kids were still at home that I think the two of THEM were rather picky about not allowing each other to use their respective towels, but I think I know why - my son was kind of sloppy and it was hard to get him to shower daily. I wouldn't want to accidentally use HIS towel either!
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
27 Nov 12
I don't really put much thought to it either. I will share with my husband if he doesn't have one. But I use my robe most of the time. So it really doesn't come up about sharing. I do have one towel that I have claimed as my towel and I don't want anyone else using it. Its not because I am being selfish or think that its gross. I just want to have it when I need it for drying my hair or if I don't want to use my robe. And my kids have a tendency to use something and then its NEVER seen or heard about again! This discussion did make me think about the health factor behind this so as usual I have decided to look this up using the Mylot search engine, What I came up with might just change your mind on sharing. Being that there are a great number of germs that hang out there in your towels. I found this at. www.maztags.com Sharing towels causes infections. For your health and fitness - stop sharing towels. Whether it is in the home or or gym or in a hotel - using someone else's towel can lead to catching an infection or disease that will cost you more than just being uncomfortable for a while. Bath towels, kitchen towels, hand towels and beach towels are great breeding grounds and/or retainers of all kinds of stuff, especially skin surface critters. It has been conclusively proven that infectious bacteria may be easily transferred in increasing varieties and numbers through sharing towels. Bath towels, kitchen towels, hand towels and beach towels all are carriers of infectious and contagious diseases. The number of bacteria on your body right now is greater than the number of people in the United States. Real dangers from infectious organisms exist in the common bathroom towel for at least 48 hours after primary contamination. Bacteria are readily transferred from one user to another through the medium of the bath towel and by sharing towels. It is a proven fact that infectious and contagious diseases are spread through sharing towels
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
11 Dec 12
Wow.... I wonder where that source came from. While it pays to be careful, I think also about how a higher than normal percentage of people who are germophobes tend to be sensitive to products and get sick a lot. I am not a germophobe and I don't lysol and bleach everything 10 times a day and yet I hardly EVER get sick. I've even heard a lot of things about how overuse of antibacterial soaps and hand sanitizer is creating super bugs and making it even harder to get rid of bacteria and germs and viruses because they are adapting to all the products we are using to try and get rid of them.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
27 Nov 12
Hi mommyboo, every family member having our own towels. We don't mind sharing the clean and dry towel. We just don't share the used towel for it's considered to be rather unhygienic to reuse the same towel. We are cultivated since childhood to have personal towel, handkerchief, toothbrush due to personal hygiene purpose. Even babies and small kids have their own towels. This can prevent from the contagious infection of skin disease. but not strict and ridiculous to keep one's towels under lock and key Happy posting
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
10 Dec 12
Of course everyone has their own toothbrushes, I cannot imagine sharing something like that lol!
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 12
I had seen couple having habit to share one toothbrushes Worse still some even really disgusting that to share the same toothpick in the food court
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
26 Nov 12
yup, here in my family, we share the towels. i wash towels a few times through the week, so there are always fresh ones put out but we do share them in my house.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
3 Dec 12
I usually only have one load of towels to deal with a week, there are 3 of us and my daughter only uses one towel instead of the two or three she used to use when she would get water all over the floor lol. She typically will use a new towel and not reuse her old towel - if she can't find it. I hang mine up so sometimes she just snags mine. I know that sometimes if we have to mop up water or dry the tile after dealing with something sticky that I will take the used bath towels and use them for that since I figure I'd rather use an already used towel.
@challs12 (548)
• Malaysia
26 Nov 12
Lol, I really don't like if someone is using my towel. That is a bad attitude. I never share my towel since I was in primary school. My mum will make sure all of us using our own towel. Then when I was in secondary school, I stay in hostel and I really take care of my towel and other belongings to make sure no one use it. You can easily infected with skin disease if someone use your towel. I will scold that person if I found he is using my towel and I will immediately wash it.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
3 Dec 12
Hmmm. I hear it's easy to get fungus and athlete's foot and all sorts of other things from gyms and from walking around barefoot - but so far none of that has ever happened to me. Of course you want to be careful if someone has a rash or a cut or sore or anything like that but I wouldn't be all that worried about family members or people you are close to/spend a lot of time in close contact with, you'd likely know if they were sick.
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
26 Nov 12
i share (a little). Reminds me of a discussion from a few years back by a guy who was advocating washing the towels after every use. After all, they are used to dry your backside....
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
3 Dec 12
Heh. Well, that brings to mind a whole different question - is a towel actually DIRTY after one use? Aren't you getting clean in the shower? Maybe I shouldn't ask that question, as who knows what people are doing in the shower
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
3 Dec 12
That was what I said, which is when he pointed out that you dry your backside with them.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
3 Dec 12
And I also wash my backside so it's actually clean when I dry it. That guy sounds a tad neurotic.
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@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
27 Nov 12
Mommy, we don't share towels in our family. Each of us have our own sets of towels. Since from young, my parents always prepare each of us with our own towels. Only when we are on vacation and sometimes lack of towels, then me and hubby would share towel. I seldom share towel with my child. I think as long each of us don't have any dangerous skin disease, then it is alright to share towel.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
11 Dec 12
I'm truly shocked at the amount of people who think they will get a disease from sharing a towel. While it could happen if someone is sick or has a cut or a sore, in most cases it's unlikely. Obviously you wouldn't share a towel with a stranger, but it's just surprising that even SPOUSES have issues with sharing towels, after all, don't you sleep in the same bed? LOL! I'm just saying...
• United States
26 Nov 12
I do not share towels with anyone! I won't even use my own bath towel twice.I also wash my kitchen towel every night I would not ever share a towel with anyone. I do have a hand towel that I keep hanging in the bathroom and I will sort of share that one with others - but that's just drying my hands after they have been washed.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
3 Dec 12
You just answered my other discussion without knowing it lol. I was actually wondering if people considered bath towels and kitchen towels dirty after one use and would toss them all in the laundry to wash after one day! I'd have a load of towels every other day if I did that - six towels, three hand towels, three washcloths, and two kitchen towels. I probably swap out my hand towels every week, but I have 2 of them in each bathroom.
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
27 Nov 12
No never... When it comes to personal hygiene I am 100% serious and it has nothing to do with being greedy at all. If I have got no choice rally, maybe I would share a towel with somebody who is close to me. But I have got a choice, i would never do it as it is not hygienic at all.
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@ladygator (3465)
• United States
27 Nov 12
babyeve, You can look at my response. I shared from another site the health dangers of sharing towels. It is not a good thing to make a regular habit of.
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
28 Nov 12
Ok thanks for telling me and sorry.
• India
27 Nov 12
I don't share towels with family members. Though in some rare cases i share like when we are on a tour or vacation. I don't think it is hygienic to share towels with family members
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
10 Dec 12
I never really considered it NOT hygenic until I started reading all these posts from people who feel that way lol.
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
No, not ever. If there aren't available towels yet that are dry I'd rather dry myself using sets of facial tissue.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
10 Dec 12
Really? You would use something else other than a towel someone else had used?
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
We don't share our towels at home. We do have individual towels. Even my 3 year old nephew has his own towel. We used to share towels when we were young, but now that we have grown up, our mom makes sure each of us has our own towels. My sisters and I sometimes share when we travel and we're too lazy to bring our own towels since hotel towels are not the type of towels that we really want to use
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
10 Dec 12
You don't like hotel towels? I don't bring my own towels when I travel unless I'm NOT staying in a hotel.
@ayuzawa (436)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Yeah we share towels with the girls in the family but the guys in the family has their own.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
10 Dec 12
This makes sense too.... honestly it never crossed my mind to NOT share a towel with a close family member - unless they were dirty or had a habit of not showering often lol.
@joycseer (845)
• Malaysia
27 Nov 12
Hi mommyboo, those we do not share towels does not mean that they are selfish with their towels. We do not share towels as well, and we do not need to lock our towels afraid being used by others because each of us have our own towel to use. This is not a selfish act, but rather health hygiene is concern. Especially male and female should have different towels. It is better that way. We normally wash our towels every week, so we have few sets to spare. Towels for children or babies should be separated as well. Babies and children are more sensitive, so we need to ensure cleanliness for them. Their towels should not be mixed with the adults.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
10 Dec 12
Wow . I will say since posting this I've noticed mostly that each of us seems to actually use the same towel and we don't share, not purposely. However, we DO use the same towel more than once since it's dry by the next time we use it lol.
@kabz_peg (27)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
I never share my towels with anybody else in the house. I actually have plenty of it which i used more often to absorb sweat on the back. I find it gross knowing that I personally use it for my convenience and then someone would use it as well. No way...
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
10 Dec 12
Oh.... I'm talking about bath or shower towels, NOT a towel you use when you're working out lol. I cannot imagine sharing a sweat towel lol!