The fiRst timE you goT youR heaRt bRoken? how was iT?
By hlfbldmom
@hlfbldmom (743)
Philippines
November 27, 2012 9:06am CST
It is not an easy one to deal with. I've been mourning over my first heart broken for two years. That even my brother mourn with me every time I isolate myself. I bit isolated myself from society and normality for bit long. I forgotten how to live for a bit. All my mourning and hoping for that which could never be has done is cause me suffering. I do myself a favor , I allow myself to shed the necessary tears, have the necessary mood swings and take as much time out as I need. I embrace all the memories that brought me comfort and warmth and forget those that brought me sadness. I am so thankful with my family and friends whose around me during those times. They brought a real sense of happiness and security to me. I do what makes me my spirits feel happier than what they are feeling. It eventually forcing down myself to ultimately move on, and that way I ended up excepting the situation is insolvable and I ended up moving voluntarily.
After that heart broken I figured out something, that another person can never complete or make us happy. Those things have to come from within us. We don't need certain person to be happy!.
6 responses
@00BleedingShadow00 (784)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
The first time that I have ever experienced that my heart got broken I felt like I was dying slowly, but I get over it. Someone who breaks someone's heart is not worth living for. If it's not meant to be, it will never be meant to be. Sometimes we think that there is one special person destined to be with us forever. I don't believe that crap anymore, so whenever someone breaks my heart I get over it easily. :D
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
28 Nov 12
It is good that you have finally understood that how to come with terms and it is only we who could make us happy.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
I was a very, very young teenager then. And I guess being young made it even harder to deal with a broken heart. I remember it affected my studies so much that I almost didn't make it to the next grade level. I hung out a lot with my friends, skipping classes at times, because I felt it was one way of making me forget the hurt I felt. But eventually I got over it. I'm not really sure how that happened - whether it was the supportive words from my friends and my mom (Yeah, I told my mom about it. I was very young 
) or I just realized that it's not worth ruining my life for.
) or I just realized that it's not worth ruining my life for.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
hi hlf,
It was hurtful one really I cried for a week but after that I help myself to be myself again, in some point it help me to be a better and strong one. I went to parlor go on dates, shopping, bonding with friends.
I can say I am better without him it open lot of doors for me
happy mylotting
@graysky (132)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
i was and i learned a lot from it.it made me the person i am today.well..i got my heart broken not only from failed relationships but also from those past situation i have gone through,and i honestly say i became stronger and wiser because of those.it helped me shape my own life and personality.i remember those times that i feel so helpless but i told myself,"you have to be strong otherwise noone will be strong for you".then i found myself moving on bit by bit,facing every challenges that life has to bring.and after that,i know,deep in my soul,i can face another challenge again but will not break.
