I must do what i can do
By AkamaruKei
@AkamaruKei (5219)
Malaysia
22 responses
@deazil (4730)
• United States
28 Nov 12
Relax. Stop thinking about the money. Once you do that you'll feel better. Don't force yourself. That's not good at all. You are supposed to be having fun. You see Mavic and I follow each other around and have fun. We joke, we make each other laugh. We help each other. We are NOT thinking about money. Not yet. Not until the end of the month!
I'm joking. Start having fun and just be yourself.
I'm joking. Start having fun and just be yourself.1 person likes this
@leateagee (3667)
• China
28 Nov 12
That is a very nice piece of advice. Though I don't think about the money from myLot, I honestly think about the money from my day job. Now, I just have to enjoy and focus on my job then I'll think about the money thing on the 10th of the money. That's the day my boss gives us the salary. 
@deazil (4730)
• United States
28 Nov 12
Thank you. It's always good to help newbies who are trying hard to be good members. You also have given him good advice. It's nice to have different viewpoints when getting advice.
Ooh. Payday. Always a happy time! Now I'm going back up a little to comment to your other comment.
Now I'm going back up a little to comment to your other comment.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
28 Nov 12
First you relax. take a deep breath and compose yourself. SEcond ask yourself, what do you want to do first. you can not focus if you don't exactly what you want. Organize your thoughts write it down if necessary. Prioritize and have time for each task. It is just a matter of time management and organization if you have mastered this, you will surely have a more time for everything. Hard at first time but if you know already you will eventually make it. Third, this is the most important, do not stress yourself and get sick, the more you won't accomplish anything at all. If you cant do it, don't force yourself, don't stress out. Ok. be happy and stay healthy, Inhale, exhale.
Breathe, breathe.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
28 Nov 12
yes.. deazil... agreeeeeeeeeeee.. give the kid your greatest piece of advice.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
28 Nov 12
I agree with the other respondents "enjoy". MyLot is not a big income machine. Look for a stable job or make a business and then make mylot a social network where you could improve your writing skill and meet people from different walks of life. @leateagee (3667)
• China
28 Nov 12
I missed it too but I am kinda occupied. Hopefully you are well too and I wish for more time here in myLot. I was just waiting for something and make myself productive so I joine dthe discussion. I was happy to see you. @deazil (4730)
• United States
28 Nov 12
Kinda occupied? Wait til the baby comes. You will really be occupied then!
I tried to comment back to you in your discussion about sharing in mylot. I saw your comment and replied to it but mylot was having problems for a few days and it ate my comment. So I started over and retyped it and it got eaten again.
So I gave up. It happened so many times to me that night in other discussions too. It was very frustrating. And then it kept happening the next night.
I am happy to see you too. Your hair is much longer than in your other avatar. It's very pretty. :-) I hope I will see you around more often.
I tried to comment back to you in your discussion about sharing in mylot. I saw your comment and replied to it but mylot was having problems for a few days and it ate my comment. So I started over and retyped it and it got eaten again. So I gave up. It happened so many times to me that night in other discussions too. It was very frustrating. And then it kept happening the next night.
I am happy to see you too. Your hair is much longer than in your other avatar. It's very pretty. :-) I hope I will see you around more often.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
Mylot does not give us any quota on how much we should be responding to in a day. And the best way to earn here is to enjoy what you are doing. Your goal should not be really trying to reach the minimum payout by the end of the month, but rather, enjoy as much as you can and you'll notice just how much it has earned you.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
@Akanarukei - some days really has lesser interesting discussions to us. no matter how much you would want to join in any discussion you just can't have your heart and mind to just respond to just any of them. Don't be hard on yourself. Just take it slow.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 12
I not target to reach payout in the end of month. I just target to respond 30 post everyday but i cannot do it.
@abonner11 (46)
•
28 Nov 12
Do you know if there is a limit as to how much money that you can earn from this site in a month? I am doing it because I need the extra money. What was your highest payout in a month if you do not mind me asking?
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
28 Nov 12
yes. each one should do what he is capable of. in mylot --we can share our ideas, learn from others, make friendship. this is not a place to be depended for earning one's living. enjoy and post and earn.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
28 Nov 12
Yeah i agree with you ravi. Hmm i want to ask something how to use mylot code?
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
28 Nov 12
Hi friend!
I would suggest that you just have to enjoy. Set aside the thought about money or earnings that you can get. This way, you will be able to concentrate on the idea and the content as well as the quality of your work.
Also, don't try to push yourself beyond your limit because you will really get sick if you do that. Take care!
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
28 Nov 12
Yesterday i get my highest earning in mylot even i not doing a lot. Before this i always respond near 30 discussion but i just get a little amount.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
28 Nov 12
You are correct if you have tension and too much thinking while doing some task or work then you are bound to make mistake as ideas will never flows into your mind smoothly. Hence concentrate on your jobs so that you can give the best of best result for the task you will be doing.
@kingjay071 (96)
• United States
28 Nov 12
If you feel like you are thinking more on the money than enjoying the socialization of this site, step away from the computer, clear your mind. Relax from stressing yourself from high expectation that you want from this site. I tell you, if you want to earn more you have to give more. Give more of your time and effort in having fun. Enjoy the people on here. Enjoy having conversations with the people. I would say enjoy trying to get others to join for socialization than the money. The money will flow regardless but, if your mind isn't focus more on the money then you will realize that money is flowing without even knowing it. Take it from someone who has return to the site after having the mind set on the money and not the people. By me thinking more on the people than the money, I am typing because my thoughts are clear and focus on responding to the people. Trying to make a connection with them. Making friends all over the world. Just be patient with mylot.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
28 Nov 12
It is important not to be hard on ourselves, which we are sometimes guilty of, we push ourselves too much and do not reward ourselves enough. If you force yourself to do something then you start to see it as a chore, something to avoid then it's not pleasurable any more. Nothing is worth getting yourself sick or stressed about, when you feel this way do something you really enjoy or take time out to relax and have fun. You may feel differently tomorrow!
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
10 Dec 12
You are right! I cannot push and force myself to much. I must do it slowly and patient. :)
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
If you are thinking of earning much money here in mylot, then you will not last long. Mylot is not the site to earn much. The key here is to enjoy the site and learn from the site. That is the reason why I have lasted this long here in mylot. Too many people have joined the site with the thinking of earning, but just after a few post, they are gone. Tis is simply because they get discourage on the earning. But if you just enjoy the site and interact with people, you will find out what mylot is all about and from there you will surely be rewarded....
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 12
Of course i will stay long. I never give up in anything. Some people give up because they never learn about mylot. They always do a same thing because always think about earning. Right now i understand.
@marguicha (217279)
• Chile
28 Nov 12
THis is not a site where you work and get stressed to get money. This is a social site where you have lots of fun. The ites pays you for your participation. Maybe you will discover little by little more ways to participate. But first read the rules of the site so they don`t delete your posts. Good luck!
@marguicha (217279)
• Chile
28 Nov 12
Personally I like this site a lot better than FB. I only have my personal friends at FB. I had to delete some other people that I befriend at first.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
28 Nov 12
Only my first day being a member in mylot my discussion get delete after that i understand little by little in mylot. Yeah what you say is true i must join this site like i join in facebook.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
28 Nov 12
Too much thinking about how to earn more money at Mylot will really make the mess of your thought as such since you are bound to make the mistake or will get some problem in getting smooth ideas to present your views. So be cool and see how your concentration increase on your work
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 12
Yeah must be cool and calm down. It just waste of time if my post delete because i not focus to post quality post.
@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Nov 12
I think you should just have more fun here and not stress yourself out. It is supposed to be a fun place to be! =) I would not worry so much. When I worry about the earnings I do not do as well here as when I am having fun...
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 12
Yeah i want to do like you. If i focus and relax my star will increase like today. :)
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
don`t force yourself i guess.. mylot is not a site where you can earn fast you should work hard if you really wanna earn but don`t do this if you can`t because you might get sick eventually because of the stress that is causing you.. just enjoy your stay here and have fun.. respond in the discussion that interest you most..
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 12
I want to do relax and slowly. I dont want to work very hard here because i see a lot of people get sick maybe because not enough rest and always thinking to earn in mylot.
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
I think you are right! Everyone must do something for he/she like it or love it. It is better that you enjoying things like this than doing this for the sake of money. Money will just be a reward! The more important is the enjoyment you have so you will not get bored!
@BetterDays4Me (3777)
• Philippines
30 Nov 12
yes, and one more advice is you remove the word "must" when talking about mylot because this is the word that is giving you stress. Replace it with the word "like" and I believe you will go a long way in working in a much better mood in mylot. Cheers!
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
28 Nov 12
Yeah what must i do in mylot is enjoy discussion and relax not force myself to much to earn.
@canthandlethetooth (91)
•
28 Nov 12
If you enjoy what you are doing, you will never get tired of doing it all over again. :)
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 12
Yeah i must be calm down. It is useless even i do a lot of post and respond if i not post or respond with quality.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
Oh, you don't have to think about it. Just keep on participating to available discussions and post your own, too. You have to keep on posting and enjoy. You won't notice that you're earning when you don't think of your earnings.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
10 Dec 12
Yeah when i not thinking to much about earning i see my earning is increase a lot. It's like magic.
@Arieles (2473)
• United States
28 Nov 12
Relax and have fun. Find posts in which you feel you have something to contribute to or that you have a common interest in. You will find it easier to post to topics that you enjoy and have something you want to add. It's like life, if you find something you really enjoy you won't be worrying about how much money you're making, and you'll have fun. "Do what you love, and the money will follow!" Pretty soon, you will realize that without even trying you are making money and having fun too. Good luck.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 12
Yeah i just respond discussion is easier for me to respond so i can get quality respond.
@512771751 (1096)
• China
28 Nov 12
Yes, just as you say, we shouldn't hold such mood to be active on mylot. Now I just want to share my true feelings with friends and search help on mylot. Good luck.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 12
Yeah what i want to say i want relax and enjoy doing in mylot. If my mind relax so i have a lot of idea.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
28 Nov 12
Hi friend, mylot is a place not only for making money, we can get a lot of friends here and have fun and enjoyment with them through interaction, so don't force you to make money with this site and have fun with you friends. If you start to interact with your friends and be active with this site, the earnings will take care of themselves, so don't focus in money
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
10 Dec 12
Yeah you are right. I dont want focus to much to earn money. Let just admin count my earning per day and my job here is to writing what i like in mylot.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 12
Yeah i want happy doing discussion in mylot not stressful. :)
@abonner11 (46)
•
28 Nov 12
To earn a lot of money you must post to a lot of discussions each day. If you do not need a lot of extra money then I would just enjoy it and relax. I need the extra money so I have to post a lot. Hope this helps you. Request to be my friend. Thanks!
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 12
I not say i dont want extra money but if i get sick because working to hard in mylot and i use 10 dollar for my treatment so it dont have a meaning.
