how are u paring?
By graysky
@graysky (132)
Philippines
November 27, 2012 9:13pm CST
i dont know if it is the right word to say.i cant contain myself after reading a message from my bestfriend.i wanted to know how she feels or if she is mourning,angry,upset or sad.i dont know what to say for i am the one who is more upset with the badnews she got from her boyfriend.i was there everytime she had problems dealing with his boyfriend's attitude.i saw her cried and felt her pain too but i always told her to keep her patience coz its the love that matters.i always told her to be good enough to understand his whole being.and now,after months of dealing with his bad attitude,she got an email saying "there is no us this is the end"...i really dont know what to say to her.i feel sorry for her and her baby.and as i am writing this blog my tears are flowing.
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2 responses
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
28 Nov 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Hey i feel so bad about your friend and i know she must be broken after seeing that email. I think she should have realized by now that she is with the wrong guy.
With such good friends like u around her, she should have paid at least some heed otherwise she would have never seen this ugly day. I hope she is fine now and forget everything that has happened with her.
What say?
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
28 Nov 12
To be honest I don't think you gave her the best advice. Telling someone who is crying day after day and in such pain to be patient because this is love is wrong. Since there is no love if you are that unhappy! So if it comes to that you have all reasons to be upset. I don't think a friend in such need is waiting for such kind of advice. If you are unhappy you want to know you have a friend, you need to feel that friend. Not to hear: keep patience this is love! Sorry this is NOT love!
I think it's good he put this to an end. She has the right to be upset, angry, sad, to cry and even hate. Sooner or later she will start building her life again. It will be hard but her child is worth it, she will find someone else, make friends, start smiling again and discover she is a strong person, a fighter, a survivor. A person with personality, character and self esteem. This is how life is. She is not the only one, many had these kind of experiences, already since ages. They made it (I am one of them btw) and she can make it too!