He's a heartbreaker
By leateagee
@leateagee (3667)
China
November 28, 2012 8:08am CST
I was not surprise to come across woth my ex-bo in one of the social sites. What surprised me was what came into my mind when he suddenly pop-up saying "Hi." I hesitated to reply because I thought "He's a heartbreaker."
Well true, he broke my heart and it took a long time to heal. It afffected most of the parts of my life. Good thing I am surrounded by very supportive people.
It took me sometime for whatever it is that needs fixing and healing, even trying to trsut another man.
But guess what I did not talk to him since then. So when he said "Hi." I did not reply. I do not really care.
Am I still bitter?
Should I talk to him now?
Thanks guys. Miss you all!
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6 responses
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
Well if you he really isn't worth your attention then it's good you ignored him 
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@leateagee (3667)
• China
29 Nov 12
True, it's not worth it. In my opinion it will just rekindle bad memories. 
@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
I think it is neither bad or good. It is your decision. Some people would just reply and chat as if nothing ever happened. But others would just keep their silence. Anyway, you were able to live your life without him, why would you need him now?
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@leateagee (3667)
• China
29 Nov 12
Exactly. Actually I have forgotten him already except if I meet the common friends. But now that I live far away its like why should I care to know how his life. I was that hurt that I am willing to forget that part of life. 1 person likes this
@aseretdd (13729)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
Seems like you do not have the closure you need in order to really move on from the relationship... because if there is... it wouldn't hurt to say hi back... i don't blame you for not giving any response... if someone broke my heart... it would take years to heal... but when it finally does... then i might even be the first to say hi...
@leateagee (3667)
• China
28 Nov 12
I agree. We did not have any closure. I did not want him to have a peaceful life I guess. I think he is thinking I'm still into him. I have moved on I guess but I just do not want him in any parts of my life. 1 person likes this
@nani4ajay (108)
• India
5 Dec 12
You should say hi, have a casual talk with him that you feel better even in this kind of situation, have peaceful talk, without thinking about the past. Have a great day.
@betty1989 (751)
• China
28 Nov 12
You should smile to him and say hi. That prove that you have already good and have go out from the shade he left. Without him, you must be stronger and prove to all that you are brave enough even you have ever been hurt by someone.
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@leateagee (3667)
• China
28 Nov 12
Thanks. That's od advice. I just don't want to know anything about him nor I wanted him to know about me. I know he has been asking around because he found me. I am stringer, you are right. But I've been hurt.
@misjoseph (162)
•
28 Dec 12
You stated he is a heartbreaker and he has broke your heart already and it took a long time to heal and it affected most of the parts of your life... i don't understand. You know about him already he is a heartbreaker so you should to take the chance because it is a great risk for you to take...
