When mylot friends are approved

@savypat (20216)
United States
November 28, 2012 11:27am CST
Most of the time I approve new mylot friends, unless they are agressive about earning money. But I do find with time that new friends are not always on the same page as I am. Pretty soon I get irritated with myself because I have no responses to their discussions and since I am here on mylot to enjoy and learn I will delete these friends. This is a reflection on me not on them. My point is that I may have deleted you as a friend, but please don't get upset about this, it's about me not about you, and I wish you well on this site where each one adds to the quality of the discussion and responses.
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@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
I don't remember ever deleting any friends or anybody from my friends' list here. I do not see the benefit of doing that. Fortunately, I have yet to encounter a reason to do so, and until then I will just keep them in my list even if some of them are already inactive. I think that if I had to go through my friends in the list and delete those that I do not find favorable I would have to spend a lot of time doing that and it's something that I think wouldn't be worth it. If I added somebody and find out that they're discussions or activities are not on the same page as mine, then I can always ignore them, unless I get harassed, I guess I'm okay with it.
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
29 Nov 12
I have a guilt button that makes me feel I have to answer at least on discussion from each friend that posts each day.
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
30 Nov 12
I can't blame you for that. There was a time in my life when I felt that way, too. I wanted to make sure that I was participating in their discussions and make them feel my presence, but after many times of being away from here, it became impossible for me to get back to everything so I decided to just go on and just participate on those that I find myself intrigued in or comfortable enough to share and discuss things with.
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• Philippines
29 Nov 12
I add those friends who are requesting to me. I do my best to respond to their discussions. I guess they won't mind if I can't keep up with them especially if they post a lot of their discussions. They are all welcome to be my friends but I hope they should not expect too much from me.
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• Philippines
30 Nov 12
@deazil, I sent you a private message after reading this. I hope you got it. I guess you have to make your own discussions, too. It will be more fun if we'll get some interactions here. Share your life experiences, etc. Hoping you would make your own discussions soon. Happy mylotting.
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@deazil (4730)
• United States
29 Nov 12
angel, I am having a problem sending/receiving PM's. If you get mine can you let me know? But don't use the "respond to this message" button. I might not get it. I think you have to create a new message. Thanks. Oops, off topic. Well, angel, you don't have to worry about responding to my discussions. I don't make any.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
30 Nov 12
Over course of time, I think we have all deleted someone for their views, or discussions that did not always fit along with us. Many times there will be people who tend to only think about certain things we are not interested in, and since we have an opportunity to respond back to so many interesting people here, that in reality we should be able to keep what ever friends interest us the most.
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@inertia4 (27978)
• United States
3 Dec 12
You have the right to do what you want here. No one should feel bad. You're right, if they are not conducive to what fits you then you have the right to delete them. I have many friend here and I can tell you I only see posts by a few of them. I have not had the time to go into all my friends and see who is still active or not. Maybe one day I will.
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
I have observed too that most who request me as a friend are newcomers and most of them isn't around anymore. However, I didn't delete my friends list yet who isn't active. I wish newcomers will stay around and know more about myLot. That myLot isn't all about earning.
@Mavic123456 (21891)
• Thailand
29 Nov 12
Refreshing Watermelon - This is a picture of watermelon shake. The one from Save House Resort, Thailand is one of the most refreshing shake I had ever taken. This cools down the summer heat and the watermelon extracts its own special flavor enhanced by the mixture of honey. I would surely go back to Save House, Samui, for this one. Hmmmm...
Yes, if all my friends in my list will comment on the discussion I have posted, even half of them are not online or inactive now, I will still get at least 50 comments. These are already those whom I see active at the moment and seeing them post their own discussion. But I am okay with it, still I don't delete them because it is not my earning that's affective it's theirs. Would you know if you were deleted in the list? I don't usually check on my friend's list anyway. Yes, make this a worthwhile discussion and responses. Here take this refreshing watermelon shake to cool you down. Cheers and relax.
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@deazil (4730)
• United States
29 Nov 12
Thank you for the watermelon shake. Did you get my PM?
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@Mavic123456 (21891)
• Thailand
29 Nov 12
YOu are much welcome friend. although it is not really for you. LOL. nope but I sent you email. Did you like the watermelon shake. wheww it is so refreshing isn't it.
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@finlander60 (1804)
• United States
28 Nov 12
I am most likely to approve any friend request here. I really will befriend a new person when I get an opportunity. When, or if, one of those new friends starts putting up LOTS OF DISCUSSIONS, that may or not be real discussions, I don't delete them but I will TURN OFF NOTIFICATIONS on them. I don't think that I have ever deleted any friend.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
28 Nov 12
I have been approving new friends but couldn't respond to their discussions because I can't relate to most of their subject of discussions. But I do not Delete them from my list. Even if I haven't respond to their discussions but they still respond to mine.
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@cobalt20 (1318)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
I have no problem in approving friends as long as they create topics in mylot. I want also help them in making money like joining legitimate sites. Deleting friends is not for me. I will still added some friends who are serious in making money online. Thanks for sharing.
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@MandaLee (3804)
• United States
28 Nov 12
Hi Savypat, For me, mylot is about the discussions. I approve all friend requests. I don't delete anyone unless someone is being unkind or disrespectful to me.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Nov 12
Everyone has their own way of doing things I suppose. For me personally I don't delete friends because of different interests. I find that one might be interested in different things but at times they have discussions I can relate to as well. So, I keep them on my list so if by chance they have something I am interested in I can respond to them. But to each their own. =)
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@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
Hello there savypat! I know some people who don't easily add up friends here in myLot. Their reason was because some are not active here. In my case, I add all people who request me to be their friends. I just wish that, since this is a community, they will be around to support our started discussions. Well, each person have their own reasons. But that is what I feel. Happy Lotting and Happy Holidays!
@sishy7 (27166)
• Australia
29 Nov 12
Every few months or so I do some 'cleaning up' of my friends list. I approved most of my FR; but I don't want my list to grow out of control. So, I'd go over the list and delete those who have not been active for a long time.
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@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
I wonder where my other friends too. But definitely I won't be deleting friends. God bless!