not feel well

@Sissi321 (130)
China
December 5, 2012 8:52pm CST
yesterday, i saw a friend who flight from another country...i think we are always friends, but something i think it changes...the society make everybody reality...at the begining, i think we are the real friends...i trust...but it hurt me...and today i don't want to contact with hime again...so i refuse to return the message... i belive there is the true friendship between girl and boy...maybe i haven't met... guy, you are disappointed me... there is old words in china, no see is better than see...
10 responses
@vernaC (1491)
• Romania
6 Dec 12
Things change, people change, feelings change but it doesn't mean it will stop ot it will be gone. All you have to do is to accept changes and find ways to make yourself feel better. Why not try to communicate more and answer back to his messages, if you still want to be friends with him. if not, your chooice to change.
• Canada
6 Dec 12
accept changes in life as they will always happen. be sure to have true friends and treat them well. be closer to him but saying more aboit yourself now and how you are doing. friendship is the greatest bond and you should really contact your friend again to be closer. your choice
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
hi, actually i have a co-worker and a friend of mine that will go to another country to work,and her flight is very soon this coming month of February,i and some of my co-worker feel sadness even she is still here,because another good friend again will leave us.
@aabuda (1722)
• Philippines
8 Dec 12
Well, I think there has been some changes that made you feel that way...I do hope that your friendship will go on and that whatever thing that you and him are feeling right now, it would be over and that your friendship will still lingers on.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
How long have you been apart? Maybe the time and distance surely made both of you change. Let some time pass and see how it goes.
• Indonesia
10 Dec 12
Sometimes distance and time can change friendships. There is a friendship / relationship that will not fade by distance and time, but others can not face these obstacles. Real friends will not go away even thought distance separating you. One day you will meet your true friends.
@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
7 Dec 12
People do indeed change and their feelings for others change. If you had not made a commitment with this person, then there is no commitment of feelings. I think you a woman because it is very hard for a young man to have a friendship with a pretty, young woman. He is build differently and thinks differently and probably wants more than just a friendship. Women understand and appreciate friendships better than men do. So, if you are expecting a man/woman relationship to stay at the friendship level - then you need to have a very deep talk between the two of you.
@klystron635 (1519)
• Philippines
6 Dec 12
For sure there were a lot of things that changed not only to your friend but to you as well. Just give your friendship sometime, you haven't seen each other and there is really a possibility that the fire has lessen. It didn't die, it wasn't just as warm as it was before. I am sure that your old friendship will be back.
@al1979ex (125)
• Philippines
6 Dec 12
dont believe in the old word "no see is better than see" we are in an advanced technological world now so you can still see your friend via skype or facebook and tweet with each other. even here in mylot. dont be naive around there.
@cobalt20 (1318)
• Philippines
6 Dec 12
I think you are going well. Don't worry you have still classmates and old friends back there. I am happy that you see a friend from other countries. It is ok. Life can be separated. Have a nice day!
• Bangladesh
6 Dec 12
friendship is certain and necessary relationship. Whatever happened in your life might be this is an accident but find out a true friend is a great thing I guess. So think further with your true friends and be well.