Martial relations.
By rubyroy
@rubyroy (824)
India
December 7, 2012 12:01am CST
When you get married you have to have a life of give and take,but the ratio of give and take can never be decided on formulas and conditions,
When you are married,you have to forgive and forget but how much to forgive and forget,there is no percentage to calculate it,
When you enter in a wedlock,there can be sharing and caring,but how much to share and care cannot be fixed on any criteria for measurement,
When two hearts become one through marriage,the amount of love to share with each other can never be assessed
The love of any marriage should be complete and complimentary,filled with mutual respect and care,
Marriage should be filled with love that is without conditions and clauses,then you can be rest assured,there will be a beautiful relationship to cherish for the whole life.
6 responses
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
I like how you deliver your words here.
Well speaking of relationships we don't need to have perfect marriage, as long as there would be contentment and understanding on each other, the way you accepted your partner, the way you and him fights with the troubles that come, on how you keep your love alive. There are lots of factors to be considered on marriage.But only few people who really understand those factors and end up having beautiful marital relations.
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@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
8 Dec 12
We are all imperfect human. A marriage based on love of both partners means they accept their imperfections. If couples do that, they will more likely survive any coming marital obstacles.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
10 Dec 12
Hi friend, you are right, you provide various positive aspects of marriage. Marriage is a great relationship between the couples, and it gives bond between a man and a woman whoever involved in the married relationship. But now a days, most of the people don't give importance to marriage relationship and applying for divorce for silly reasons. Some others are not interested in getting marriage and following the living together trend, due to this kind of people the real value of marriage is decreasing in day by day manner.
Different kind of people is having their own definition and views about marriage. For me, marriage is a great relationship which ties the couple. It is a great bond between the couples and both of them must give importance to the relationship. In the marriage relationship both of the couple is having equal importance, no one is superior and no one is inferior. Give equal importance to the partner to live successful married life.
Marriage requires good understanding between the partners and both of them have trust, mutual understanding as well as become loyal to each other. Couples must avoid the EGO clashes in their relationship and consider their partner as their better half and give equal importance to them. Don't try to hide anything from your partner and try to adjust with your partner. Always be frank to keep your relationship for a long time.
Avoid unwanted quarrels and clashes, if you have kids surely you must avoid fighting in front of the kid. Compromising with our partner will help us to achieve a lot of things in married life. Always try your best to compromise with your partner. If they are wrong, show it to them in a normal way and try to made them to realize their faults. Mistakes are quite common to every one, so don't give more importance to silly mistakes and advice your partner to avoid their bad things and habits in a friendly way.
Marriage relationship is the beginning to all other relationship, we must give a lot of importance to it and made it to be more stronger with our activities. Understanding, adjustments and compromise will help you to keep a married relationship for a long time without any issues.
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@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
Very nicely said, rubyroy! However, not all couples realize that they are missing some of their responsibilities towards their relationship and thus blaming the other is their easiest way out so it often times lead to arguments, misunderstanding and sometimes to the end of marriage. Couples should realize that for a marriage to work perfectly, both of them have to do their share in making it work and not to rely only on their partner. After all, "It takes two to tango, right?"

@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
8 Dec 12
It definitely takes two to tango jenny1015. If couples understand that from the beginning of their marriages, they will greatly reduce the possibility of divorce.
@Angelpink (4031)
• Philippines
8 Dec 12
Marriage is a lifetime commitment. No return , no exchange ! But at present this does not happen , yes it is a commitment but it can be broken if marriage is already a hell. Time to go if love is no longer the ambiance , no more commitment in there.
Some people though wife is very much around and alive , still they keep on chasing girls and building intimacies with them . Hurting the wife instead of loving ,exchanging wife and family with his own personal desires. No more respect to the vow
yes it is but right to go on separate ways than to stain the sanctity of marriage.
@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
8 Dec 12
Those things happen around us all right. Marriages end up divorces due to reasons you mention and lots of others. Getting divorced, however, had better be the very last thing to do after all making up efforts fail.
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
Hi there, rubyroy! It was well donep said. Being married will make you more trusting, respectful, responsible, understanding, caring, selfless, and loving. Well, that it should be for the both parties and not for just only one and the other just will receive it all. Married life is full of ups and downs and what matter is how you will pursue to fight for the love you have.
@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
8 Dec 12
Very true indeed mhaiXCs10s. When a person is married, not only should he think for himself, he should also think for his partner and kids too. Love helps overcome any present and coming ups and downs.
@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
8 Dec 12
I agree that a marriage should be based and filled with love of both partners. Where there is love, percentages and other measurements of sacrifice made become irrelevant.







