Have you ever feel have no sense of safety?

China
December 8, 2012 7:42am CST
I am the one who need a sense of safety badly. I bet most girls lack of sense of safety. Maybe just hope to have one strong man to protect. Maybe pets can also give a sense of safety. Unfortunately, I often can not feel safety. I am afraid to be alone. I canot sleep if the bed is not close enough to the wall. I have no courage to travel alone. I am afraid of going out alone at night. I scare if I see someone is quirelling even it is none of my business. I need a sense of safety badly. Mylotters, do you like me who are lack of safety?
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@suildong (64)
• China
8 Dec 12
I sometimes feel lack of sense of safety when I have no money in my purse.haha. just kidding. I always feel secure when my girlfriend is with me. Even I am far away from my family, I won't feel insecure. Instead, I must give her a firm sense of sarety.
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• China
8 Dec 12
yes, man should give a sense of safety to woman. A big hug will enough. wish you a good life.
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@prashu228 (37525)
• India
8 Dec 12
ohh is it.do we feel secure if we have our partner with us? but i dont think its possible always so we should learn to be strong, that's good even for our partners. They feel good about us.
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• Philippines
8 Dec 12
Well some girls do feel like that but I think it's best if you work on it one by one. Like when did this happen to you? You should start with the sleeping. It would still be better if you're courageous. Take some karate lessons or self defense lessons to build your confidence that you can protect yourself on bad circumstances. It is impossible that you will always have someone to look after you or to be with you when you travel or at night.
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• China
8 Dec 12
yes, you are right. I should learn to grow up. No one can accompany forever. soemtimes, I need to be alone. Thanks
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@prashu228 (37525)
• India
8 Dec 12
I am not like that at all dear. I can live alone and most of the times i ma alone and love that. safety is necessary i agree. you need to be strong and develop courage.
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• China
8 Dec 12
Maybe I am just too coward. I need to be strong. Hwn my boyfriend has a night shift, he will ask one of our friend to our house to sleep in other room so that I will not be scared.
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@bux123 (96)
• India
18 Dec 12
i agree that most girls lack of sense of safety. some boys also have no sense of safety. if it is about small things then it is ok, if it is about costly objects like cellphone, wallet etc. that is big problem. my self i take safety tips regarding this.