He is Cleaning the Pile of Junk!? OMG, Am I Dreaming??!
By NailTech
@NailTech (6874)
United States
December 8, 2012 9:11am CST
No he is not doing it on his own either, he would never actually do any work around here like that. Just what HE 'wants' to do. My mom must have suggested to my brother this morning (being it is Saturday) and he isn't working on weekends that he should go through this large pile of crap he has in the corner in the living room next to his "bed" (the couch!) cause they were just talking and my brother jumped at her really harshly as he usually does when he doesn't want to do something. He is actually going through it and I hope going to put most of it elsewhwere! OMG, yay! I am so sick and tied of seeing that pile there and it should be cleaned out! He is just soooo flippin' lazy and never wants to do anything like this around the house. He sounds like he is out of breath already and he just started, man there is either something very wrong with him or he is just so spoiled after so many years of coddling cause of the spoiled brat syndrome he has. My mom has probably been afraid of him being so rude to her like he just was, he was saying "I don't need any help Just go!", etc. and in a really nasty tone of voice. Like he was pissed that she made him do it. But man, that was a really bad mess and she should have been able to tell him a long time ago at least 2 years ago! No wonder she didn't tell him before, he still has quite a big line up of things in the hall way upstairs too and in that room of his OMG, a hoarder's dream. My point is wow he is really abusive, just like her and to hear the two of them together like that made me laugh cause of all the abuse my mom puts on me and my dad. Then my brother gives it back to her for this. Such dysfunction, but I am hoping this is a start at least in getting rid of the garbage he has in my parent's house! No, he doesn't pay rent either. It is like telling a hoarder to get rid of his stuff which he is and she did. I see this on the TV show Hoarder's all the time when I watch it (not that often but I get the jist of how they are when told to get rid of anything). Now she is made and hiding in the house upstairs, she will be talking to him again though by the end of the day. Before she went to him and he started to yell at her she was arguing with my dad about something in the kitchen where I could hear my dad getting frustrated. It is just such a crazy house with these people arguing and barking at each other like dawgs, sheesh. They are wacko people but all I have. 





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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
8 Dec 12
She is not doing him any good by coddling him, but of course you know that. She needs to just stand up and yell at him to get him to do more, I don't care how old he is. I wasn't really yelled at near enough as a kid to be made to clean and now I really don't like to clean. Though in this house it'd take me six to seven full days to get it looking nice again...
Your family sounds like my family though, dysfunctional. Yelling at each other, especially if one of us is watching t.v.
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@NailTech (6874)
• United States
8 Dec 12
Well, it seems my mom was telling my dad to clean the top of the fridge off before my brother started cleaning the junk pile of his and that is why the tension was there between my mom and dad earlier. She is insulting rather than productively critic al cause she doesn't know how to be anything else. She can't seem to tell my brother what to do unless she is also telling one of us to do like that. Same thing with the blame, she can't blame him for anything unless she is blaming one of us. It is something from her childhood I am sure as one time when my Aunt was over here she talked about how if one of the kids her mother had would do something wrong and then all of them would be blamed for it--which wasn't right either!! I am now starting to understand alittle of it but I would wish she could be better than that and see that it is wrong and not do the same as her mother or father or whomever...Yes we all have our dysfunctions but we should work them out instead of making them worse. I finally feel like doing the happy dance now that he is cleaning the junk pile. Now he needs to work on the hall way upstairs and get rid of the 2-3 cars/truck with junk in them in the driveway!! If you look at him he is just as slobby as the place looks with him in it, he has a bald head with shoulder length hair, wears sweats with flannel shirts, very very loose fitting--just like a slob everyday. Yuck. He himself could use a make-over too. Then maybe someone would want to date him. I'm not perfect myself wither but I don't let myself go as bad as that and act like my momma is my date or something here. Wanting her to stay up to watch TV with him every single night, just sad...I am embarassed to introduce them to guys I might meet.
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@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
8 Dec 12
I am even laughing readin this, it's about time. I know it's hard to be an adult and have your own space to store things. I know I have things piled up in my room. My Sister, and my Mom always tell me to clean up. I had my scrapbooking out, and went out to my card making last night (and hadnt put my things away - which is my bedroom floor), they start saying I am a hoarder, and how I have all this crap (I had the brats stocking and what I bought at PetSmart yesterday). I walked upstairs my sisters room you cant walk in, nor my parents room either over dirty clothes, books, dishes, you name it. My sisters room is about 3 x bigger than mine, and you cant even walk to the bed without climbing over things.
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