spend all day long at home without going out

China
December 11, 2012 8:22am CST
I am new here in this place and I have no friends here. Just my boyfriend and me. I always spend all day long at home without going out. Without TV, all the thing I can do is surfing on the Internet and do some chores. sometimes, I am pretty gloomy for the life I have here. I have to make myself busy online and get fun. If my boyfriend is not at home, I don't who I should talk to. just be silent. Anyway, I get used to this life. Do you like me who can spend all day long at home without going out?
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13 responses
• India
11 Dec 12
Its very difficult to spend all day at home without going out basically i am not your type whenever i try to remain at home since i am a smoker i need to go atleast surfing all day makes me dizzy and i need atleast one ciggrate to think.
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• India
11 Dec 12
If you stay at home all the time you can start a small business from home.
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• China
11 Dec 12
yes, I am doing some small business online. Selling my talent. hehe.
• China
11 Dec 12
yes, maybe most people will need go out, not like me. I just have no idea what to do if I go out. have a nice day.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
11 Dec 12
Im at home almost 24-7. I have a small cafe in my home, and work there 430 am till 8pm. So i stay home most of the time. I sometimes walk to the market.. but its not far from my hom ehere. Glad to see you here today, take care. happy holidays.
• China
11 Dec 12
yes, my house is near to the market. I usually go out about half an hour is OK. jUST get some food and fruit. have a nice day.
• India
11 Dec 12
Why dont you work betty?
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• China
11 Dec 12
i am just new here and it is really hard to find a job here related to my major. Next year, we will move to city and then I will find a job.
@anne25penn (3305)
• Philippines
11 Dec 12
Ever since I got diagnosed with hypertension, I had to stay at home. I also rarely go out. Not going out is more beneficial for me because I don't get to spend anything since I do stock up on groceries. The only time that I would ever go out is to water my orchids and feed my pets. Other than that, I just stay inside. I do go out once in a while with friends. But I rather like the solitude inside my home. I don't feel bored or anything.
• China
12 Dec 12
Just like you, I can enjoy myself without going out. Only there is food inside. That is enough. have a nice day.
@prashu228 (37525)
• India
11 Dec 12
Hi , why not. we all get such time in life where we have to spend some time just like that. No body plans for that. Nobody knows about it before. Take your time and try to make new friends slowly.There is ample of time.
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@prashu228 (37525)
• India
12 Dec 12
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• China
12 Dec 12
yes, maybe I should go outside and make some friends here. Once I went to play volleball with my boyfriend. People playing there are older than me. At least ten years. I do not think I have the same topics with them. Maybe I will have a try. have a nice day.
@deiusz (193)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 12
why are you stay at your home all day long? is it holiday time? are you not working? im working on business day go from 6am leaving my home and back home at 8pm usually. other days just stay at home by myself, take a rest, refreshing my brain from working. make some having fun with internet like in mylot, im new here, very new. its fun here, really. dont be boring here, alots of fun that you havent found yet.
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@prashu228 (37525)
• India
11 Dec 12
Hi, she already mentioned she is new to the place. so she doesn't even know anyone nor working.
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• China
12 Dec 12
yes, I am new here. I have no friends here. people I met is just my boyfriend's collegue. I am jobless now. I used to an English editor in a big city. To stay with my boyfriend, I quit the job. have a nice day.
@shion13 (85)
• Indonesia
12 Dec 12
i don't think it's good for your heart though. don't you feel bored or tired? maybe you can try to go out anywhere with your boyfriend. in the park, or shopping, or anything else. you can refresh your mind like that, being online in internet for all day long is tiring too, for me though.
• China
12 Dec 12
I just get fun on the Internet. When my boyfriend has a rest, I often go outside with him, like climbing moutain, go shopping. have a nice day.
• Indonesia
12 Dec 12
cool! as long as you enjoy yourself, it's okay though. everyone has a different interest and wants :)
• United States
12 Dec 12
If you are bored with being home alone, why not go out and do something? Find a part-time job or a volunteer position. Surely, there must be something that you can do that does not involve sitting at home in front of the computer all of the time. Go meet your neighbors. Join a community organization.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Dec 12
Hmmmm nice same like me but not always but some time not go out of home and spend all free time only in mylot because complete the target and feeling happy. But I am talkative so mostly not spend full time in a day.
@nat1_ong (150)
• Guam
11 Dec 12
You have a special someone to talk to. That is something to feel thankful for. Compared to me, I am single and the one that I'm with at home is my mom. But I don't worry if it just the two of us at home. I work 4 hours a day. At the rest of the time, I am at home too. Doing online stuffs, well its great because online reading helps your brain to learn more and be active more even if your eyes tire. Don't fret if your always at home, doing your chores and being online. That's part of life. Let's just be thankful that we do normal things and we could manage to do things while were young. We breath and do things we love to do even it bore out the hell of us. Watching t.v is good to. We entertain ourselves and we manage to uplift our emotional spirits and holistically be healthy in our minds and body. Have a good day to you and merry christmas
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• China
12 Dec 12
yes, at least I can talk to my partner. Just surfing on the Internet and cook for him when he is back and then enjoy movie together. Merry Christmas.
• India
12 Dec 12
Hi friend, if i am in your position, i will do the same like you, spend my time with online sites as well as have fun and enjoyment with my kids. In fact i want rest from my out side activities and spend more time in my home with my kids
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@bux123 (96)
• India
18 Dec 12
don't worry your boy friend is enough. you will have fun and time pass. you don't need other person, why because if you find a new friend he or she may have different mentality and it takes time to understand them. i think you are busy always online. RIGHT?
@robspeakman (1700)
11 Dec 12
Most of my day is spent sleeping.... That is not because I am lazy, I work the nights. Any time off I have is usually speant catching up with jobs around the home, chatting with online friends or trying to earn a little money. As you get older you will start to enjoy the silence - I do like it when they kids are at school
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• China
12 Dec 12
Oh, you work at night. That means you have to sleep in daytime. Do you get used to this? have a nice day.
@Lovegreen (376)
• Philippines
11 Dec 12
I can do that as long as I'm online as time runs fast when I'm facing my computer I don't get bored at all :) I don't like getting out nowadays anyway, it's scorching hot outside and besides all my neighbors do is gossip and talk about other peoples' lives. I'd rather stay home.
• China
12 Dec 12
That means you do not like gossip. If you do not like, staying at home is the best choice. Like you, I just have fun On the Internet, so i am not bored at all. have a nice day.