Why girls are going for lesbian relationship

December 16, 2012 11:42pm CST
Now a day it is found that the girls are preferring for lesbian relationship. Is it not against the law of nature. When nature has created male & female for relationship and Love then why girls are preferring for lesbian relation. I think it may be attraction in age of youth. But, what about in old age. I think that both male & female shall not breach the law of nature and should not be deprived of the sovereign GIFT OF NATURE.
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@franseman (516)
• Philippines
17 Dec 12
Their gift of nature is being attracted by other women. Same goes for gays (like me). It's been there for thousands of years now and still there are people questioning it. Even in the animal world it exists. What age has to do with it I really don't understand at all!! And oh....it is NOT a choice. It is deep inside us.
• Philippines
17 Dec 12
I agree with this. May I add also that who you want to be with is not determined by what they have down there.
• Philippines
17 Dec 12
That's a good one! True. People always tend to think that gays and lesbians are only interested in 'down under'. As for me: not at all!! There's much, MUCH more in life than just that!
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
17 Dec 12
I don't really know the reason because being in a lesbian relationship is not appealing to me. But here are some answers I got from some people I know. They say that lesbians, as they are women too, know what women want. So they know what to give a woman to make her happy. Sometimes they are good at maintaining relationships, they understand how a woman feels, etc. That's the most common answer people have. Here are some other reasons: They say that some girls who go for these kind of relationships may have bad relationship with their boyfriends before, or maybe they were unhappy because of some guy. Some of them are men haters, but still want love, so they find that love in lesbians. Lesbians have this factor that they are treated as taboo or outcast in a society, some women find it refreshing to be in their company, and they have some feeling of camaraderie with a lesbian because they are misunderstood by many and they want to be someone who is able to understand lesbians.
• Indonesia
17 Dec 12
good.. i agree..
22 Dec 12
Thanks Aja 103654 for giving beautiful response to my discussion. There may be the reasons which you have stated in other reasons. But I do not agree with the reasons which you learnt from people. if women discuss freely with me taking them in confidence what women need, what make her happy me can also co-operate women and can develop better relation amongst them.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
18 Dec 12
It's not a normal thing, but we cannot blame others why they prefer to have an odd relationship. I know a girl who has a lesbian partner and I wonder why her parents allowed her. I mean, her mother agree with the relationship- I don't know if her father knows about it.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
18 Dec 12
I am in no way promoting such relationship nor am I condemning one. I believe that those people who have become lesbians really didn't have a choice. From what I have learned from people I know who are like them, that they have felt that way ever since they were kids. I don't think that any parent would have taught them that. So I have told myself, that, maybe, just maybe, God did created man and woman but somehow, there had been some "anomalies" with the genetic code of some people that is why there are lesbians and gays. As for the straight people who falls in love with lesbians---I guess, they have just found a special bond between them that they have not seen with any heterosexual relationship.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
30 Jan 13
hi, now a days that kind of news is not really new to the people,because since gays and transgender appeared lesbian also appeared,and there are some country and place who accept those kind of people in their society,even here in my country.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
28 Dec 12
Good. I am with you. No more comments to do. It is all horrible and beyond my imagination.Hence better to keep mum.Why to waste our words and energy on useless topics.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
17 Dec 12
I am a woman, a girl... but i do not know what i can say to this... i have no answer because i do not have experience nor will i try to experience being with another woman, or a lesbian...
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
17 Dec 12
It's clear to me you know nothing about the human body, dna and what it means to be gay (yes lesbian is called gay as well). This is not a choice, this is nature. No matter if you believe it or not it's proved. The fact you think it's something that just happens now a days already proves you did not do any investigation about this subject. If you would have done that you already knew that since there is human being there are gay people as well (still forced to get married to be accepted). What you think is not important. If you are gay and you get married to someone you are cheating and lying to that person and the marriage is fake! This is nature as well and no matter if you like it or not you have to accept it. BTW if it would be a choice I can understand why women prefer women above men. Since birds of a feather stick together. No women likes to be treated like a piece of dirt by a men and be seen as a breeding machine!
• Indonesia
17 Dec 12
Being lesbian or homosexual is not preferrable. Just because you are hurted by a guy does not mean it's easy to for a girl to turn into lesbian. I thinks it's always something to do with hormonal .
@iamma3e (68)
• Philippines
17 Dec 12
Maybe it's an experiment for these girls, especially teenage girls, who goes on lesbian relationships, don't you think? It's like what (the fallacy) they always say: "Don't knock it 'til you tried it". Some girls just want to "try" what it's like to be in a relationship with a girl. And there are some girls who are not opposed to having a lesbian relationship. (I'm a girl and I can't really give a proper response in this discussion.)
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
17 Dec 12
Lack of anyone else around... that's my answer to your girls having girl relationship with another girl. I am sure that if these girls will be given the right boys for them they wouldn't dwell on this such relationship.
• Philippines
17 Dec 12
the natural law must be male and female in order to have offspring, that is the only way i understand it. anything other than that in no longer natural. that is not how nature developed us in order to survive.
@aravocal (54)
• Philippines
17 Dec 12
Maybe, they are not attractive to other men so they want a lesbian. or maybe there a things that they want from a lesbian, because some girl are materialistic they love a lesbian for money not for heart. i have a friends that did it to my other friends. in the end of it, the girl was left the lesbian and go with some guy.