im crying

@gilenie (190)
December 19, 2012 11:31am CST
i feel crying evry time i see some of my old friends during my younger years once i saw them having their own family. weird but true.i feel i was left out already, guess im so pressured already of staying single at my late 30 yrs...i feel jealous to them how i wish i had my own family too,,,,
8 responses
jopipay
@jopipay (336)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
Hi gilenie, It is never too late to start a family. You are only in your 30's. I know someone who found her husband in her late 30's so do not feel jealous. Try to think positively.. Do pray about it too. If you really are for married life then it will come .
gilenie
@gilenie (190)
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23 Jan 13
thnks for the advice jopipay ... im hoping one day it will be true.... my chatmate way back then is starting to court me, we had been chatting for a few weeks now, telling me he was interested in me for 4yrs already... lets wait n see...
cessybear
@cessybear (223)
• Philippines
21 Dec 12
You can pray for it you know. Have faith in God that you will meet your partner someday. Hmm, maybe He's not finished yet with your love story. ^^
gilenie
@gilenie (190)
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8 Jan 13
well i hope so cessybear im keeping my finger cross and still praying that one day i'll be able to meet the one for me
asliah
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
7 Apr 13
maybe you feel that because you also wanted to have your own family,like my ex partner,he wanted to have his own family but he can not and he envied to his friends and cousins who already have their own family,just don't give up and someone will help you build a family.
5mahi05
@5mahi05 (666)
• India
21 Jan 13
oh friend, do not lose hope. Try to consult some marriage counsellors and get yourself out of it. Why do you have to be single anymore. You will surely have someone out there for you and may be he is also waiting for you for long. Stop crying and feeling jealous and find the right person for you. Trust in god, he will show you the right person for your life. God bless.
greenthumb018
@greenthumb018 (595)
• Philippines
19 Dec 12
SOme people on their thirties are happy with their lives even if they are single. Focus on what you have and be thankful. It is very hard to have a family nowadays especially if you are both not financially stable. There's hope for you because you are still young. You're just in your thirties and not fifties. Enjoy your single life, be happy for your friends and pray that you may find someone to be with for the rest of your life like your friends.
gilenie
@gilenie (190)
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20 Dec 12
greenthumb018, yes there's alot that i should be thankful for maybe its just my surroundings that pressuring me, my other issues in life . thnks for the advice
liezel25
@liezel25 (292)
• Germany
19 Dec 12
Oh.. maybe its just a mix emotions. Sometimes crying is a tears of joy. Just be happy for them that that got their own family. 30s is not too late to search for a partner. Just lose yourself a bit, go to a dating site and meet new friends. I'm sure there's someone who's been waiting for you :)
gilenie
@gilenie (190)
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20 Dec 12
yes liezel its a mixed emotions already, maybe having to much pressured on family matters that make it worst,,,
Aminul Islam
@aminul842700 (861)
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
21 Jan 13
Dear friend, you try to get a ideal partner and be happy. You should not be jealousy. Try to convince some beautiful girl by your good quality and behaviour.one
j6face
@j6face (67)
• Malaysia
20 Dec 12
crying is not the solution, make life interesting by doing upbuilding stuff that brings joy and satisfaction to you. more happiness in giving than in receiving