What is the most important ?

China
December 19, 2012 9:28pm CST
What is the most important in choosing a lover.I had not thought that choosing the other half is so difficult and complicate.Nowadays it seems that true love is not enough when I choose my Mr.Right.The economic background is also considered.I expect that the man loves me and I love him.But the problem is that my parrents' and friends' attitude towards my boyfriend makes me so confused.I can not defy that material life is the basis of spiritual life,so the conflicts between ideal and reality embarrass me.How should I do?
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@vinay100 (24)
• India
20 Dec 12
Out of the various factors available to you there will be many a times things that will change your mind. There is no constant factor, and yes the economic factor is very strong and we should stay away from it.
• China
21 Dec 12
You mean that we should stay away from the economic factor,right?But,but anyone of us cannot avoid this kind of problem.The economy is the basis of our life.Oh,my ladygaga,I don't know how to face and solve my situation now.
@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
20 Dec 12
Everything is being considered in choosing a lover, like your feelings, family background, job, looks, financial considerations, and etc. Most of us have our own different criteria or standards when it come to this thing. I knew a lot, some are my friends and relatives, of people who were once very careful, picky and choosy, telling and sharing me and other people what they like and what they want with someone they will tie the knot with. But when they got married, I looked at their partners and just laughed because all those things they have been describing when they were still single were their partner's exact opposite! Haha So wierd, isn't it?
• China
20 Dec 12
Oh,my god.It sounds terrible and scary.What you said seems to tell me a lesson that I should not be too particular with my Mr. right.Now I am looking forward to finding a handsome man who have a good personality and character.He should also have a good knowledge and finance background.However,as what you said,finally the man I will marry is like what??A Beggar?Lol.