Bad dog

Philippines
December 20, 2012 9:55pm CST
I am a pet lover since I was a child, I love my dogs and my cats. I love to hug them and kiss them and give them a bath. Just this year I got a dog, it's a toy poodle and it's really cute. During her first week on our house she's so playful and so sweet to me and to my mom. We love her so much, we feed her on time , play with her and give her a bath. One day she acts strange, she would bark at us whenever we tried to hold her or go near her. The only person that she wanted to follow is my mom, she doesn't bark at her. When we are alone at home she would follow me and play with me but when my mom arrives, she would totally become a snob little doggy :( What should I do with this?
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@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
21 Dec 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i can understand your situation and for a pet lover like u this comes not only as a shocker but as a disappointing too. Well i do not know why that dog is reacting this way but i think animals have varied moods and u need to gauge it properly. U need to observe and find the cause why your dog is close to your mom and not you. May be u should be there with your mom when she is with the dog may be that will help u a lot. What say?
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• Philippines
21 Dec 12
Yes I've been trying that one, feeding her with my bare hands and playing with her. She's really moody!! arggghh, My father brought her tie and when it was on her neck I saw that she was really scared and stopped barking. As of now she doesn't bark at me every time I show her the tie funny lol.
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@deazil (4723)
• United States
21 Dec 12
I believe your dog is beginning to show possessive behavior towards your mother. This is not good and needs to be stopped or she can become unmanageable. I've seen shows about this on TV before but a long time ago and really don't remember what they did to stop it. I do know that this is not good at all and can escalate to the point where the dog is in charge of you and the house. Is there a dog trainer you can talk to? You need to learn how to properly train her to let her know that you are the pack leader, not her. This can happen when a dog is spoiled the way you have spoiled her. It's much more fun to spoil a dog, I know. That's why I don't have one. I would be a terrible dog owner and the dog would rule the house. I found a site that might help you. www.thedogtrainingsecret.com/blog/dogs-control-owners-relationships Even if she is not showing this exact type of behavior I think she is going to at some point.
• Philippines
21 Dec 12
Yes, it scares me when thinking that she would dominate the house soon lol :) She was really a spoiled 2 months and 21 days puppy, I don't want her to become like my other dog who really bites, We used to tie him and then he would bark every single person who enters the house :( specially when he is eating.
@deazil (4723)
• United States
23 Dec 12
Barking at people when she is eating is called food aggression. It means your dog considers herself the alpha dog and she is in charge of you. If you don't stop this behavior it will escalate to the point where she will be unmanageable. This is one reason many dogs end up in shelters and are eventually put to sleep, because the owners can't control the aggressive behavior and the dog becomes dangerous. Please speak to a dog trainer.
• Philippines
24 Dec 12
That's a problem, she is really aggressive when we feed her bones, I mean those big bones which cannot be swallowed of course, she would get angry if we get it from her because it's dirty. She would be very angry and barks at us so now we don't really feed her foods like that. We gave her meat and let her eat a little piece on our hands so that she will get used to it. Whenever I gave her dog food and put it on her plate she won't bark and she's not angry at all. So now I will never give her Bones to play on.
• Greece
21 Dec 12
I have read that poodles are very intelligent, in fact a full size poodle is supposed to be more intelligent than any other dog. In view of this I think your toy version is probably also a very smart little dog. I'm guessing but I do wonder if as you have bathed her already that is why she is barking at you. Dogs generally hate water. The hugs and kisses and baths may not be recognised by the poodle as loving gestures! So I suggest that you cool things down and try something that the dog will naturally respond to. For instance, I have four dogs and they love me to scratch their throats. They lift their heads for this and lick their lips. They also love to have their tummies stroked gently - the part where there is very little fur, a stroke on soft skin is as nice for them as it is for us. Also a little cupboard love works well, when you greet the puppy have a little treat for her, cat biscuits are the ones I use, but you can find doggy treats in the pet shop. If this is not possible then a little piece of meat will be welcome. Above all do not force yourself upon the dog, watch her body language and if she backs away and barks then ignore her and try again another day.
• Greece
24 Dec 12
I am sure she will be good, she is still growing up. The main danger is to not spoil her and to make sure she knows that you are the pack leader! If you don't lead her this little creature is going to think there is room at the top. Have a great Christmas.
• Philippines
24 Dec 12
Hello, I love your comments :) I will do that, yes she loves being scratch on her tummy and then she rolls like a barrel every time I do that. I'll try that treat that you said and hope that she will not always be a bad dog. She is sweet sometimes if we ignore her, she would sleep at our feet and makes a face, a very lonely face. When she's really aggressive and keeps on playing and biting some wires on my computer I always tell her "bad! that's bad" with a louder voice then she stops and licks the wire instead of biting. I hope I could learn more about her on how to tame her because I don't want my dog to grow up being bad, I want her to be friendly and be a nice dog someday :)
• Philippines
8 Jan 13
My Cousin’s Dog is also like this most especially when there are visitors on her place. It’s because such animals are just acting territorial. Since they completely know that the scent is from a stranger her Dog completely go nuts and barks a lot. What she does is she consulted a Dog Trainer and have the dog be train to get the good attitude over being territorial.