How can i be a better friend ?
By zabuqamar
@zabuqamar (138)
Australia
December 27, 2012 3:30pm CST
Hey guys,
Something weird happend to me, me and my friends know each other for about six years and we'v always been together for those years but that day i started wondering how can i be a better friend because all of them have been there for me when i needed them and i think that im not doing enough to my friends
so please give me some advice on how to be a better friend !?
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4 responses
@jodylee (946)
• United States
27 Dec 12
I like to try, with my friends, to do random acts of kindness. I know my friends well and what they like and dislike. I try to make things for them or stop by with things they like, just because. I am always an ear when they need it and willing to try new things as they discover new things. Being a good friend is really easy, just be prepared to help your friends, even if they don't ask for the help. I love random acts of kindness and I love paying it forward.
I am curious though, why do you feel you need to be a better friend?
@zabuqamar (138)
• Australia
28 Dec 12
Thanks jodlee,
Why do i feel i need to be a better friend ?
Because all of my friends are helping me in studing and explaining to me stuff i didnt get in math and others, that made me feel a bit wierd. Thats all but thanks alot
@chelseamae (31)
• Philippines
28 Dec 12
You can be better just be with them when they needed you most. Return good deeds back to them.
@Otanetix (508)
• United States
27 Dec 12
I do not really a distinction between being a just a friend or a better friend. You are either a friend to someone or not. I know that may sound weird, but I think measuring how much you are a friend to someone is non-existent. Friendship is relationship between people that have built a state of mutual trust. For me, it's like a chain of trust. It either exists or it does not exist.
But if you are really insistent on trying to be a better friend, just continue to take an interest in their lives and try to communicate each other as often as possible.
@zabuqamar (138)
• Australia
28 Dec 12
I'd dis agree with that because i have a lot of friends but theres something called best friends and those Best friends are the people you always hangout with. But thanks anyway
@liezel25 (292)
• Germany
27 Dec 12
You can not just be a better friend, you can even be a true friend. You can also do the good things they've done to you. Help as you can whenever they need help. Give them support and cooperate with them. Just stand by them through thick and thin. Small or big things you have done would really mean so much to them.
