I miss him madly....

@ryanong (9665)
Vietnam
December 29, 2012 12:39am CST
Yeah, i have to confess that....event though i am very busy with my research, i work day and night over weekend in here but i always think of him when i am on the way going to the lab or back home... Before i went to korea, he gave me a phone, he said he wanted me use whatapp when i am in korea then i can still send message to him anytime even though i don't use a korean phone number. I was upset when he could not chat with me before I go to sleep 1-2 nights before, I was touchy, i told myself i won't be online on whatapp to chat with him anymore, but just after 1 day, i have to open whatapp to check whether he sends message to me ore not. Sometimes, i asked myself, do i love him already...i don't know... i just know that i miss him madly...
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@Janebaby (47)
• China
30 Dec 12
To be honest,I don't think it will be some avail of love which is far away from each other for a long time.Long distance is a great problem between lovers, it can change many things . There are so much seduce around us,we need accompany when we feel lonely,we need caring when we are ill. so how can you do this for him because of the long distance. And you, as the same ,there will maybe appear an excellent man to take good care of you.We wish the lovers finally got married.We also agree that some love experience make me more mature and cherish the real love much more.
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@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
yeah, you are right...that's why i know him more than 2 years already...even though i keep in touch with him, chatting with him every day, met in person sometimes, but.. well, what will be will be, i should live with my feeling, why not?
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@Arieles (2473)
• United States
30 Dec 12
Sure does sound like you love this guy to me. You are thinking of him all the time, you miss him already and you want to be near him. Yes, you love him. I hope the two of you will be together soon. Maybe you should message him and tell him you love him, maybe he will come back to you all that much quicker. Good luck.
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@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
Thank you so much for your encouragement, Arieles. I think i will tell him tonight...
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
When you love someone you think of him constantly. You always long to talk to him even if you can't see him in person. So, i guess you love him dearly ryanong.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
29 Dec 12
yeah, we are in touch even though we live far away. and i am happy when i can chat with him even with some messages. Actually whole day of working is very boring and time chatting with him is my relaxing since i can laugh and smile a lot...
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
That is one way of keeping the love alive, even if you are far from each other. Keep it up, my friend.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
25 Feb 13
Right now i temporarily don't chat with him, he likes to use a "silly" word anytime without a right reason. I really don't like that way...
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
Missing is different with the word loving... We can miss anyone's presence that became part of our life but it doesn't mean that we are loving all of them. But the word missing can be associate with the word loving because you will really miss the one you truly love... Sound too hard to understand? Well, I am just stating a fact... You said you are not sure that you love him but you are sure that you miss him. Well, what are you missing? His presence or his effort on showing how important you are to him? If you miss his presence then maybe you are leading into loving him. Or if you miss his way to show his love to you then you are just being a female fatalist and being selfish, for you just want to be love by others but don't like the idea of loving him back. Well, we can't force to love anyone... We tend to feel it not to be dictate of. If you want to know if you love him already then it is only you who can tell. Find it in your heart for it answers... Have a nice day! God bless with your love life!
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@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
Thank you so much for your analysis...i understand what you mean..and for sure i am the person who knows i love him or not only... now, after your analysis, i have my answer already...
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
Clearly,you have feelings for him but analyze first if it's love or just infatuation. Most of the time these confused people. Love develops through time while infatuation is just an instant feelings.
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@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
ah, you are right,love or infatuation...that's why i did need time to see what is truly my feeling toward to him...
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@Jennlee3 (292)
• United Kingdom
29 Dec 12
I think when you're in love with someone you don't have to ask the question: 'Do I love him already?' You typically know somewhere deep in your gut the answer to that question. You could be in denial but somewhere within you, you have the answer. Regardless, just take your time and see where it leads you. If you're in another country having to focus on research, the timing might not be perfect. And make sure he is missing you too and you're on the same page. Sounds like going slow might be key. Good luck.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
well, the feeling is familiar the love, we have it a lot...then sometime we think we love someone and then after a while, we have to confess that no, we haven't loved yet, it was just feeling that looks like the love only... That's why...currently i can't ensure my feeling toward to him is the love yet. I don't doubt his love since he did care me a lot for long time..i just doubt my current feeling only even though i don't care any man else. But you are right, with time, i will know...
@Jennlee3 (292)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 12
I understand the predicament. Intense emotions can be confusing and I think you're right that a lot of emotions and especially lust can masquerade as love. There is a fine line between love and lust and I think it's exceedingly difficult to differentiate between the two. Again, I'm sure you will figure it out. Perhaps, just ask yourself if it is just about the attention, adoration and comfort of having someone or if you feel intensely for him in your heart that you would do anything for him, essentially move mountains to assure him happiness, support him unconditionally and if you would love him regardless if he was at his highest or lowest point, the best or worst version of himself.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
one more thing i concern is the distance...and i used to mention about it but he said the distance is not a problem, just after 10 hours he could meet me. in fact with me, he is a nice man and i love his characteristic...but sometime i still think of a distance..
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Dec 12
hi ryanong yes I think you just answered your o wn question if you miss him that much oh yes you do love him, so relish all the times you can talk to him on whatapp and be glad you have someone to love and be loved b y. I ha ve been widowed for a long time b ut still miss my husband too.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
yes, many people said that i love him already since i miss him a lot..and i think so, it is very nice when he cares and always around me. I understand your feeling toward to your husband and the life is till going on, i wish you are always happy...
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
Missing a person that bad could mean that you are falling for him. Nothing wrong with that. But you both need to sacrifice a lot since you are far apart. I am keeping my hopes for you. I hope that despite the distant, both of you can build a very good and string relationship.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
Thank you so much for your blessing, i hope everything will be ok with us...
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
7 Apr 13
strong feeling of missing a person is a sign that you soon to fall in love with that person,because you wanted to be with that person,hear his/her voice and feel his/her presence,and you say that you missed him madly meaning that it will go now to love.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
8 Apr 13
Yeah, i agree with you too..it is a sign to know we will love a person or not...
• India
7 Apr 13
Hi friend, i think you love him. As you mentioned you always think about him and check for his message with a great curiosity, these are the symptoms of love, as you mentioned you are missing him badly, it clearly shows that you love him so much. Don't worry, he will be with you in the near soon and my wishes for it
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
8 Apr 13
hihi, till now, i don't check his message anymore, he is lazy now, sending messages 1-2 times a week only, then i am not interested to check his message anymore...
• China
30 Dec 12
It is very common and can happen to every couple which live separately,wish you can meet him very soon. And I think that you may already love him.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
i just met him before i came to korea, just more than 1 month but i miss him so much...i hope i can meet him again soon. thank you so much for your wish.
@rohanmona (159)
• India
30 Dec 12
love is something bigger. Don't attach yourself too much or it would hurt you too much. just be casual and chat with him, if you have a feeling for him and when you don't like when he is with other girls then it could be love. But remember tell him if you really think he is nice and good. Prepare for worst, if he rejects you don't worry and move on. Don't stick and hurt yourself. hope this helps!
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
Thank you so much for your advices. I know he loves me and care me a lot, we met in person sometime and keep in touch for a long already...i don't scare to get hurt when get in the love, just i want to make sure that my feeling is the love with him.
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
I think you love him already. Sometimes, we can't deny that we are already in love especially if that person always appears in your mind and you've got this feeling that you really missed him. It seems that you want to see him again. Just treasure the feeling because it really felt good to know that your love was being reciprocated. Love is not expecting to be love in return, but, when the one you love, loves you just the same, it is the best feeling you could ever have. Cherish the moments and the person, because it's sad to say, I've just let the love of my life go away without telling him how much I really love him. And I can't tell it to him now, because it's too late.
@zoey7879 (3092)
• United States
29 Dec 12
I agree with you on the first few sentences... And by the way, akhaniemar, it's never too late. You would be genuinely surprised at the way that life works sometimes.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
it is too late? he got married or move to another place? no, if he is still single, then it is never late, better you should speak our your love with him...i can understand a feeling when you don't speak out your love to him...
@ma3791 (58)
29 Dec 12
we are with you man, love has no boundaries
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
thank you so much, i agree, love has no boundaries...
@farjun (135)
• Israel
29 Dec 12
you dont know if you love him beacuse your not or ever have been in a relashionship with him. once you try it youll know!
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
hihihi, i know i miss him a lot....but i think with the time, i will know clearly my feeling toward to him..and it is truly the love, then i would like to be in the relationship with him since he is nice and cares me a lot
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
Maybe because you already love him that's why you misses him terribly. In my own belief, if you misses somebody and think of him most of the time even if you are busy with other things, it definitely shows that you love that person. But if he never talks to you then you should stop thinking of him anymore.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
He keep talking with me like this for long time already and we met in person sometimes since he and i live far distance...but we did share and chat everyday...that's why when he could not chat with me 1-2 days, i was upset. You are right, my feeling is the love toward to him already but i didn't recognize it...
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
29 Dec 12
I Melissa, I hope you are all right. I am happy you have got someone lovely in your life. How is everything going?
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
Currently i am in korea and busy with my research. Everything seems good in here. Thank you so much for your caring, Sanjay. I wish you all the best.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
29 Dec 12
Love is a great thing.. hope soon you will be together there...Just think of all the good times you will have with him soon there. Take care..
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
yeah, i agree with you too, love is the great thing...and i feel so happy whenever i think back of our time sharing together... I hope everything will be ok, thank you, and you take care too...
• China
29 Dec 12
I am not sure if you love him,but I guess coz you look forward to his response so eagerly but eventually you got nothing from him.So you are disappointed at it.Maybe when he replies you,you would take it easy.And you would not miss him so much. Anyway,good luck to you.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
No, i look forward to chat with him every day...and he did the same...i remember 2 days i didnt leave message to him and didnt be online, he sent message to me to ask where i am... Currently i am happy when i have him around and caring me..later i don't know... Thank you so much for your wish...
• Argentina
29 Dec 12
He made you feel, A LOT, that is why you find him so appealing. That's why you want to be with him again so badly, to feel again. Try to find something else to make you feel (joy, happiness, excitement, whatever) and keep your focus-o-meter away from him.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Dec 12
umh...i still do focus on my research in here but i still think of him everyday..even though we can have a short talk before i sleep because of the different time.