Do you believe that this is true.....

@trisha27 (3494)
United States
December 30, 2012 2:26am CST
If the guy or girl you are with cheated on their spouse/significant other and you were the other woman or man, do you believe that if they cheated on that person that they will cheat on you too. What do you think about this. I think that yes, that they have a very high chance of that person going behind their back one day and cheating on them with someone else which in return would repeat the cycle. I would never get into a relationship with someone that was already in a relationship especially if they were married.
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@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
Yes, I believe they are prone to cheating. It would be difficult to trust a person who already has a cheating history.
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@else22 (4317)
• India
30 Dec 12
My answer is,'Yes.'If someone is a cheater,he or she will remain a cheater for ever.If a person cheats someone,then there is every possibility he will cheat you too.Cheating is mentality.People having this mentality can't be trusted.If the person you are related to has cheated someone else,then beware.He may play the same dirty game with you too.It is wise to be cautious of such persons,otherwise you will have to repent for befriending them.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
30 Dec 12
Yes I agree that those people who decide to stay with the person who was cheating and they were the other woman or man, then they should proceed with caution and be expected to be cheated on as well.
@else22 (4317)
• India
30 Dec 12
Yes,living with a person who has already cheated someone else is not wise.We must be cautious while selecting our life partner.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
3 Jan 13
I think you are right. If they will do it once, they will do it again. Women often think that when they get into these relationships that it is different with them but it's really not. I have not seen the odds in favor of change.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
30 Dec 12
That is a logical explanation of it. I truly believe that someone who has cheated once would commit the same sin again and again. It was just like your credit report has a bad mark on it, which would drag your credit score down. Anyway, I would not commit my relationship with a girl who already cheated on her husband, that she might find another man behind your back.
@pandora22 (868)
• Romania
30 Dec 12
A cheater will always remain a cheater. If he cheated with you, he/she will cheat you also.I don't believe in second chances when it comes to cheating, as I don't believe in second chances when a man hits his wife or girlfriend (he will do it again for sure, no matter how sorry he is). In this situations you don't have to take the risk.
@ivan88 (193)
• Canada
30 Dec 12
You have the right set of mind, girl. It is especially rare to see a younger person today being concerned with this. Never ever get into a relationship with a person who is already having someone else. Moreover, if you get interested in such a person, it is important to keep away even from friendship because it may cause inevitable problems in a relationship of that guy and prolong your own "agony." Always back off from that for a while, and use that time to get over your feelings.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
I think there is a huge chance that if someone was cheating on a person, and if the guy/girl ended up choosing the one whom he cheated with there is no assurance that the guy will be true to that person, in the first place you have accepted the person and knew he was like that and you tolerated it, and participated in the relationship to cheat on someone... so you ended up being a victim yourself, hoping to change someone... i think though that is not really possible, and women would barely be able to do that, perhaps only a few have been successful in changing a man... There was this show, too about the celebrities who cheat, and they cheat not because they were only successful... but they cheat maybe because its in their genes.. so how can you really carve out those cheating genes on someone? I think influence is one factor, but that should be minimal compared to one's values as they were growing up...
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
30 Dec 12
I agree with you. There would be a high chance that the person would cheat on me. That would be an awful situation to be in. Single people should date single people and a married person should stay with their spouse or get a divorce. Cheating causes way to much pain.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
30 Dec 12
can say that this is indeed true. but it depends on the principles of man and woman. perhaps ever happens on one or cheating husband or wife. but to some extent this is true because some see it as another is cheated can do it out of spite anything is possible. Good day!
• Valdosta, Georgia
30 Dec 12
Sometimes... Here is why. I know a couple who cheated to be together. Now the woman cheated on her husband at the time she was with. He was an abuser and a cheater himself and she was miserable. When they invited their friend to stay with them the woman and this "roomate" were being together behind the husbands back. The couple divorced and the woman got with the roomate. They are now married and have one child together. To be honest, I don't think either will ever cheat on the other in this situation, ever. They are so in love! Sometimes I feel like if its meant to be it will be regardless of how you come together. Like with them, they were supposed to be together. So, sometimes maybe that will be the case but in this situation they will never cheat on each other...
@arpazia (191)
• United States
30 Dec 12
Yes, I believe that is 100 percent true. If someone cheats with you ,they will cheat on you. I also think if you knew said person was married and you still had a relationship with said person there is a good chance you will cheat on said person as well! Might not be a very popular opinion but oh well!