i think i miss her
By kaeirole
@kaeirole (668)
Philippines
January 1, 2013 1:06am CST
i had an ex girlfriend...we knew each other long time before we got into the relationship..we started and ended into long distance relationship..so we never had a chance to go out together as a couple..
she was a big help for me..not financially (because i'm not like that)..but emotionally..she helped me forget my 5-year relationship..
i know why we didn't worked out..it's a matter of choice..she had a very disturbing way of life that i know my family, especially my parents, won't like..
but the thought of her suddenly crossed my mind..i miss her as my friend..i miss our laughs and how we exchange thoughts and advices..but i don't were to find her..
i found her facebook profile, but don't have the guts to add her..my present gf and i has an agreement to cut any connections from our past..because we are moving forward now..
what must i do??how can i stop myself missing her?? :(
5 responses
@sunshinesophie (794)
• China
1 Jan 13
Do you think you can stop missing her.Absolutely not.As a quote goes,you can meet a girl in a minute,like her in an hour and love her in a day,but it may takes you a whole life to forget her.You can recall this memory but don't look back anymore.And don't be so hard on yourself,just let it be.You will surly meet a good girl in the near future and start anew.Wish you all the best.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
It is hard to just completely forget about a person that has been a very important part of your life. And I think it would be really hard for you to make it possible to be connected with her even if you just mean pure friendship with her. I don't think you can not teach yourself not to miss her, but just to lessen the time thinking about her.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
I think now that would be really unfair with your girlfriend. You have a girlfriend now, but you miss your ex whom you alrady have no contact with.I think you miss her not for the friendship otherwise you won't be feeling that way, and you won't even be creating a topic of her too. You miss her, period.
You really should start thinking if you have got to try to forget about her and not try to look her up in facebook or online... Set your mind straight, do you want to get in touch or just move forward?
You may just be thinking of her, that's fine you wonder how she is doing, that's alright as well... But you really should ought to make sure that it goes no further than that... it will pass if you let it pass.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
1 Jan 13
If you love your present girlfriend and have no lingering feeling for your ex , then you should do the right thing and Ex her out of your life and not add her on facebook .
If there is something to resolved then you should try and figure them out.
@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
2 Jan 13
You just have to remember her as part of your past. If you and your current gf have an agreement to cut any connections from both your past, then you must honor that agreement. But it doesn't sound like you are really ready to move forward with your new gf. Perhaps, you need to give some space between you and your new gf to make sure that you have really let go of your past.
You can't have it both ways, that is not fair to your current gf. Besides, that is just not honorable and hopefully, you want to be a person who is fair and honorable.
Remember that it is your life and you need to make the final decision as to you will be committed to - not your parents.
