Ever had to do something you don't want to do? / myLot

Philippines

January 4, 2013 3:42am CST

And as you try to do that thing, you feel as though you are going to be sick? has this happened to you? Itt does happen to me every time i try to not do that one thing that i do not want to be doing... but is forced to do anyway. haha Like, there is this phone calls to talk to customer service about our landline services not being uup - i would usually just feel so sick, pretend nothing is wrong becausse i just don't want to be talking to strangers and explaining the problem they obviously should know... And there are those when i was still studying, the reports, presentation.. i hate to do those kind of things and be in front defending the papers in front of ever body! hehe On a more serious note, i hate to be talking to someone i obviously am not friends with. it is just not comfortable, it does not feel right.. and i hate people telling me to go ahead and talk it out when i do not feel like it!

8 responses

lady Di

@lady1993 (27225)

• Philippines

5 Jan 13

We are kind of the same.. i just hate making reports related to school, i prepare for them a lot.. since i can't really do anything about it.. but when i do get up and talk to everyone, i just panic and all my preparation goes to waste..

I prefer if they just made me report about movies or artists since i know more about them.

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chiyochan

@chiyosan (30184)

• Philippines

5 Jan 13

hehe oh we are the same, i do panic easily too if there are things i know might go wrong so i probably sure hope that well, i won't be put in such a situation not to be in a very bad timing, being unprepared so i guess we won't to be doing anything more but to succumb to it, and do it anyway... forcibly. elk.

lady Di

@lady1993 (27225)

• Philippines

6 Jan 13

YEah... as a matter of fact..

i have like 2 reports to do this week... I am a bit scared, since one of them is kind of hard.. And i really hate standing in front and talking and talking about lessons i do not like.

lady Di

@lady1993 (27225)

• Philippines

6 Jan 13

YEah... as a matter of fact..

i have like 2 reports to do this week... I am a bit scared, since one of them is kind of hard.. And i really hate standing in front and talking and talking about lessons i do not like.

I just hope they listen to me while i am reporting and the teacher won't ask any questions...

sriroshan

@sriroshan (2585)

• India

4 Jan 13

Doing what you like or what we like is the common sort of factor that we find in each and every person in this world. When you do the work or you ask to do the work that you like really you do it with interest and if any work you asked to do which you do not like to do, I know you will do it but certainly it just for name sake

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chiyochan

@chiyosan (30184)

• Philippines

5 Jan 13

Hi sriroshan, i guess there is just really something about other stuffs that i don't like doing... but is forced to. haha but then there are those that we do love to do, right? :D

sriroshan

@sriroshan (2585)

• India

5 Jan 13

But sometime we have to take part in other stuff as part of our duty, as in your case, and at that time it is always good to show interest in such work even if you don't want to.

ladynetz

@ladynetz (968)

• Canada

4 Jan 13

it's a normal feeling. You are probably stressed that you have to talk to strangers, stress goes and makes you feel sick. Although there is a stress and stress. if you think that the stress you are talking about is at a higher level than normal, you might have some anxiety issues, and maybe it's good to consult a doctor. They know much more and are able to tell you if you need some extra help..

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chiyochan

@chiyosan (30184)

• Philippines

5 Jan 13

thanks ladynetz. yeah it stresses me to talk to people i am not really too close with. i do not really think of this as some kind of anxiety problem but just a simple day to day laziness kicking in. he he :D thank you for your response, though.

skyandgrassplot

@skyandgrassplot (1497)

• China

5 Jan 13

Haha what you list in your discussion almost will happen to every employee,and of course include me. Yes we really do not do those things but we have to,and after some time of work,you will get used to it,haha.

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chiyochan

@chiyosan (30184)

• Philippines

5 Jan 13

thank you, yes that is right we all have had such an experience, but often times we really are just not in the position to say no and not do what had to be done. =) he he thank you and see you around mylot!

caopaopao

@caopaopao (12395)

• China

4 Jan 13

I feel the same as you. I am a little shy so I hate to appear in crowded. I hate to meet people whom I am not familiar with. I hate to speak in public with so many people listening or looking at me. But still sometimes I have to do it, yeah, I am forced to do it.

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chiyochan

@chiyosan (30184)

• Philippines

5 Jan 13

oh yeah sometimes it is indeed like that, its hard to be with people you are not comfortable with, alright. :D especially if you see that you are being seized up.

Enigma1234

@Enigma1234 (53)

•

4 Jan 13

I have to do things i don't wanna to do all the time, but it's something you have to used to.The world doesn't work for you and your happiness and often you have to do things unwillingly.Most of times you have to show strong mind and just get over it.Good luck ;)

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chiyochan

@chiyosan (30184)

• Philippines

5 Jan 13

haha i guess this does happen a lot to us, different things that we do not like doing - there are quite a lot on my list though. :D

as2006

@as2006 (5040)

• Israel

4 Jan 13

everyone of us in some stations in his/her life do something that don't want to do.but sometime it's a must and sometime it's a part of process to be moved forward. I another point of view it's the same if we wont to work that makes money for us or we prefer to work in or with our hobbies that we probably love.

@chiyosan (30184)

• Philippines

5 Jan 13

hi there my friend thanks for sharing with us. i agree with you we do have a lot of those stuffs we want not to do but they are like required to be done, actually. he he

smilemoon

@smilemoon (766)

• United Arab Emirates

4 Jan 13

Well it happens in different cases. It happens to me sometimes with studying. I don't feel I want to study but I have too especially when I have no good marks. I'm forced to study to pass otherwise am gonna failed.

@chiyosan (30184)

• Philippines

5 Jan 13

hehe when i was studying, i sure did not like to read or prepare for exams but i do love projects that aren't boring, i love going to school too because i love to learn, listen but only to few of the subjects i love, with teachers that i love too. =) But its good to feel though, after going to a subject you do not really like and pass it, its just really wonderful aftermath feeling right?