should you reveal all to your spouse?

India
September 5, 2006 4:10am CST
should you reveal all to your spouse? i feel some personal matters/problems are better kept secret especially if they do not concern your spouse.though it might make you feel guilty that you are not revealing everything to the person sharing your life, I feel they are better of not knowing if they have no role or cant help out in that matter or problems. tell me what you think.
3 responses
@deepuj (591)
• India
26 Jan 07
Like u said, it makes u feel guilty if u dont say things, so even if things are very irrelevent or u feel no need to tell these things to him, still u shud tell them so that there is a level of confidance and understanding, i am sure ur spouse also wants to to tell everything, so that he can tell u that he ll be ther with u always.
@chalmette69 (3010)
• United States
13 Sep 06
I think you should always be honest with your spouse, but it it something you think will hurt them then maybe you should not tell them. I am talking about things you have done before you were together, not cheating. Just to clarify.
@mahapingo (213)
• Madagascar
5 Sep 06
Yes. I think you should reveal or tell all to your spouse . It proves your confidence over each other.