How did you know your lover? I don't have a girl friend yet ;(

China
January 7, 2013 11:10pm CST
I am 20, but don't have a girl friend. ;( Maybe it's because that I spend too much time with my PC.............. How did you know your lover? Do you love each other just from the beginning?
8 responses
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
8 Jan 13
Well, from what I see from your ranking, you're new, and for this, just to start I'll give you my welcome here on Mylot! I think you do not have to worry about the fact that you're still single at age 20. You think instead in my case. I am single, never had a relationship, and I have the ripe age of 37 years, I! So, what should I say? Listen to me, do not worry, even if you are a long time in front of the computer, you will find your soul mate equally, perhaps even via internet sites such as Facebook! Best wishes!
• China
8 Jan 13
via Facebook, that's a good way ;) ha ha... It's amazing you are still single. Though there are many people who get married at their 30+, but I still consider that not good. I'm not worried, but just I don't feel right when I see others walk together hand in hand ;) maybe we are on the same war line ;) and it's time to cross the fire now......;)
• China
8 Jan 13
I haven't played CF for quite a long time since I became a college student. ;( as there is no time for that anymore. You know, competition is always fierce here, as we are the best students from all over the country... oh, I forget we in the same college....... Oh, that, when to play tennis? I don't even know what do you look like... ;)
• China
8 Jan 13
we are not playing CF, but .... CS...
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
8 Jan 13
I met my husband in College. We were classmates. We started out as friends. He kept on hanging out with me and my 2 other friends. Because of my friend was a friend of his then girlfriend. He had been hanging out with us too much, that he lost interest with his girlfriend. Well, actually that is another story to tell.
• China
8 Jan 13
That's the thing, follow your own heart! Though we don't know why your boy friend didn't love your friend anymore, obviously he loves you now, and that's enough! Hope you have good life with your husband! Best wishes ;) ;) !! And maybe you can start another discussion about your sweat love story! That can be fun!
• China
8 Jan 13
It must filled with pain during that time,anyhow,she is your friend. But no one can judge that,there is no right or wrong in love,all you can do is follow your own heart. Wish you happiness forever!
• China
8 Jan 13
To Jenny, wish you spend happy time with your husband forever! To iamagoodguy, wish you can find your miss right soon!
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 Jan 13
Of course how will you know you love your partner if you didn't love him/her from the start. I understand there are couples who get married by arrange. But commonly, love comes first in every relationship.
• China
9 Jan 13
Yes, of course. But I still hope to love at first sight....That's very romantic anyway ;)
@bos_kg (9)
• China
9 Jan 13
hello ! i am 24 , i have the same problem !
• China
11 Jan 13
All right.. we can make efforts together..
• China
8 Jan 13
Well,20 years old,great time. my boyfriend is my classmate in junior high school.I felt love him in the second term,but he had girlfriend that time.I keep it a secret in my heart even not tell my best friend.Three years later,I heard the news that he and her borken up. We contact more frequently then,and last,haha... you know .
• China
8 Jan 13
Seems your are really a brave girl! You know, it takes much courage to follow your own feelings. I'm wondering if there is a girl who has fell in love with me, without myself knows about that... ;) ( total imagination.....)
• China
11 Jan 13
Ha ha, I loved a girl 5 years ago, and we haven't had contact for 5 years since we parted ;) that's a good memory, but the reality is that I still don't have my girl... go on looking for my princess............
• China
10 Jan 13
I'm sure you will find your princess! Actually,during the three years,there was a time i totally forgot him,maybe because we had no contact for two years,and i date with a boy which i knew from my guitar class.
@MaylaJay (349)
8 Jan 13
Hey there! I know what you mean! I spend most of my time alone at home, however I am also a single mother, so I have more reason than too much computer time. I haven't been with anyone for a very long time, but I'm hoping that when I find them I'll meet them through some common interest and hit it off with them.
• China
8 Jan 13
Good luck!
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
You have got to get out and mingle with people if you want to meet someone. Your avatar is cute by the way. I met my lover in high school. We were seat mates then. We became a couple in college but we don't go to the same school at that time.
• China
8 Jan 13
Oh, boy, don't be worried about that. Every thing will be OK ! My girl friend is my classmate, and we get to love each other when we sit together to have classes.
• China
8 Jan 13
Thanks for your sharing ;) Hope I can also meet my princess as you do..