The worst things hapenned in 2012
By humairaku
@humairaku (2038)
Indonesia
January 9, 2013 3:08am CST
hi lotters!
we've celebrated ney year several days ago and we hope that we can be better people in this year. amen.
new year made me thinking what have i had and done during last year. and i can say that some moments hapenned in 2012 were the saddest things happened in my life. the first and the biggest is that I lost my mom in July. i wont say much cos i have told how i feel in my previous discussion. the second, i should live separately with my hubby for one and half months in June. it was painful cos it was my first experience being far away from him. the third, i lost my baby in September. she/he would be my second child actually but i was lost him/her in a painful miscarriage. the fourth is that my daughter was being treated in a hospital cos of dengue fever in December. though the disease is not tok dangerous but being in a hospital was frightened me cos i was still trauma of losing my mom. but thank God my daughter is just fine now. and i closed 2012 by losing a great amount of money..!! Gosh, i have spent much money for treating my daughter in a hospital then i should lose a big amount of money few days after my daughter went home from hospital. i was so speechless realuzing those worst things occured last year. but i do hope i will get big luck this year..what about you, what is your worst thing hapenned last year? thanks for sharing..:)
4 responses
@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 13
Nothing worse happened in 2012 except for financial difficulty that I underwent. Hopefully in 2013, things will be much better for me and my family.
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
12 Jan 13
yup, i have same wish as you. i ho[e i can be a person who has more patience, being better mom for my daughter and good wife for my hubby. and i wish i have a baby boy this year. wish me luck, will you? 
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
9 Jan 13
Oh, I'm really sorry. You've been trough a lot of struggle last year. I hope 2013 would be better for you.
For me, it was relatively nice, I mean, the first year in my entire life of 23 years when I felt it was a good year. The only 2 negative things that stood out for me were:
-when I couldn't finish my university studies because of some minor issue the study advisors were picking nit on
-when the place I worked at had to be closed, because as we found out, my dear boss and employer didn't care to pay the rent... and he disappeared with my last month's salary (even though he promised he would pay it), when I was really working hard that month and helping him out because of all the idiotic things he did...
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
12 Jan 13
I'm so sorry to hear that. i know that we can't get all luck during all year. but 2012 was my hardest year ever. losing my mom had never lingered in my mind few years before. i was so shock cos my Mom passed away so soon. she was sick for about one month then she passed away. no sad moments compare to this moment. that is why i said 2012 was the hardest year for me, EVER.
about you, i think you should find your boss and ask for your last salary. if he denies, report him to police. maybe he was broke but still he has an obligation to pay your salary cos you had worked hard to make it. ugh, your problem reminds me to AyuWage. I had made $5 and then i submit to cash out. and after few days i found that my account was suspended. what the f*ck! -I'm sorry for my bad words, but i was so upset with them..
@blummus (451)
• United States
9 Jan 13
Compared to what happened to you, my life is pretty good even though I ended up wiht people having emergencies and having to live with me for most of the last six months. First my sister and niece came to live with us because they lost their apartment, then the same day they moved into a new place of their own, an acquaintance started what became three months living with my roommate and me and sleeping on our living room floor. Finances were tight thanks to taking out loans to get my sister moved, then the new guy needed gas money to get to his job. It's been crazy, but the end is in sight. We should have our apartment to ourselves again by Sunday.
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 13
problems come and go during a year, makes me thinking that a year is not enough to fix many problems....but yeah, we should be grateful whatever happened in our life. maybe we had many troubles but we can pass all those dark moments very well. i hope we can be stronger next year so we can get more lucky days than year before..
..but yeah, we should be grateful whatever happened in our life. maybe we had many troubles but we can pass all those dark moments very well. i hope we can be stronger next year so we can get more lucky days than year before..
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
9 Jan 13
Well then you have survived 2012 quite well with th ose challenges, loses and there you sre still. standing and fought the battle and won with flag of victory. Another year has to come another tests will surely be on the way, and these challenges you have experience will give the strength to go on and continue. 2012 was not a worse year for me, though i had experienced real bad.on the last day of it, but hey, this should not stop me from dreaming and striving once again... This is just a test of faith... And test of character... I will survive and i will go on.l. 
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 13
yup, thank God i can pass all those worse things, but don't think it was easy, do you? ..I passed them in a pain and great suffering, moreover when i lost my mom. you know that mom is everything for us so losing her was so painful for me. but, ya, I'm standing still and get ready to conquer all obstacles may come this year. I'll scream aloud: I'm a conqueror..!!! (don't think I'm crazy, do you? yeah, little maybe..lol)
..I passed them in a pain and great suffering, moreover when i lost my mom. you know that mom is everything for us so losing her was so painful for me. but, ya, I'm standing still and get ready to conquer all obstacles may come this year. I'll scream aloud: I'm a conqueror..!!! (don't think I'm crazy, do you? yeah, little maybe..lol)