He says he is my friend?
By alexpreston
@alexpreston (136)
China
January 11, 2013 12:30am CST
I met him three years ago when I was a freshman. He think himself as a great man, and let people do what he want. He is my so-called friend, Song Zhiyun. He often says "you are not qualified as a friend" when I don't want to do something for him. But when I ask him to do some basic things for me, he just turns me down or finds an excuse. We have been good friends when we were freshmen. He used my things just as his and never said thanks to me. Often he introduces me to others with sarcasm, he often tells other people how many subjects i have failed in class, how many times I was turned down by girls. But when he needs somebody's help, he is the first one to come up to me, every time I help him without hesitation. Do you think this guy is worth a friend? Should I break up with him. He is disgusting.
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3 responses
@PiaAngela (79)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
In my opinion, he is not worth your time or your friendship.
However, when and if he comes to you to ask help or advices, you can still help him out, treat it like you are helping someone you just know but not the kind of friend you would keep.
Although he treat you badly, still you are a person he think who can be there for him still, that count for something.
Three years and he has not change yet, since?
@alexpreston (136)
• China
11 Jan 13
He is arrogant from the beginning, he chooses many honest persons as his friends. And he takes full advantage of these persons. For example, he often asks me to help him in the exams, in other words, help him cheat in the exams. He has never changed!
@PiaAngela (79)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
Yup you dont have to keep him as a friend. He does not know the meaning of the word, you deserved someone better, who would not just take advantage your kindness and friendship.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
How could you say he is a friend when all he does to you is either use you or make fun of you? I don't think he is a real, good friend. Might as well find yourself someone who respects you as a person.
@alexpreston (136)
• China
11 Jan 13
Thank you for answering. He always called me "friend" when I don't want to do what he want. He just uses the word "friend" to restrict me. He is not a true friend of mine. Thank you!
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
12 Jan 13
Personally, I think it is Best if you learn to move on and find yourself a better quality of friends. Anyone who is like that, you do not need as a friend, and I am sure you can find yourself a better class of friends. One day maybe he will wake up and see what he has done, but until then leave him be. People like him are Best off alone.
