I used to have many friends before and looking forward to have more again...
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
January 12, 2013 4:56am CST
Hi there Fellow Mylotters,
I used to have so many friends when I was in college. Everywhere I go, I always met new friends. And I really missed that thing. How I wish, that I can do it again, wherein I can meet and get new friends easily. Though I know, the process now is not like before whereas it is quite easy to open up a communication before. Then, after sometime, you became friends. But now it is different, sometimes or most often times, some people get irritated or hesitant to respond. As a result, the start of the friendship got spoiled instead. Since it was somehow stopped during the start. And this thing really made me think, how to make new friends again if I can't be able to start a good communication as there are times, the initial communication got spoiled and stopped. 
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3 responses
@kokomo (1866)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
I am a friendly person also but I am not the kind of person who is approachable.Some says I am snob if he or she still not know me that deep. The way I win friend is , I will know first their attitude, either it is good or bad or simply assessing them first before I totally submit my trust and my whole self with them and so if they will also accept me for who I am then we will be good friends.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
hello there kokomo,
your ways are somehow similar to mine. as i will do a bit of observing first and if they will gonna accept me for who i am, then, befriending to someone is just easy.
@nyssa102 (747)
• United States
25 Mar 13
I know what you mean! I had tons of friends growing up, and then somehow, things changed. Well, actually I changed. I developed different views as I got older. I had no desire to marry and have kids, I still do not want kids. Even if you have someone you dearly love as a friend, and they have kids and such, they are in an entirely different world. it happens. I think people are hungering to really get together and know one another. I think it will work, if people trust one another more.
@csabaholcz (843)
• Hungary
12 Jan 13
Well yes I like talking with friends but when a stranger starts talking to me too friendly I think the guy is drunk or has mental problems. Really, if you live in a city you expect people won't start asking about your personal life and so on.
