Frustrated with my sister!

This is such normal in family life, sometimes we find it hard to have our plate being reserved because someone had eaten it. LOL, I do have such similar experience and it’s very disappointing but I don’t hold my grudge on it instead I’ll just cook another meal for myself.

I too just play on cellphone and sleep. Such lifestyle makes me very depressed sometime. You know what depressed people do? They eat all the chicken soup or whatever! She might have felt bad when you complained...

Don't feel bad, maybe your sister just like the food that much that she forgot that you haven't eaten. Next time you should tell her to ask if anyone haven't eaten. One of kid is also like that- when he likes the food so much, he sometimes to forgot to ask if everyone had their share- and he ended up eating everything.

Awe I'm sorry that your sister was so selfish to eat the last chicken soup in the pot. That is not very nice. I hope you found something else to eat and not went hungry. Some people are born selfish and do not care what others want or might need as well, I have been around so many of those kinds. I pray you can get some more chicken soup again.

Have you told her that maybe she can make you another pot of soup if she finished it all without asking you guys if you want any? We can't really say what goes on in her mind right now, or you can also be right she's just being plain lazy. As a younger sibling, sometimes there are moments that the older sibling tends to "take advantage" or power trip just because "they're in charge". But me and my siblings have this sort of pact that we will resolve any issues between us without parental involvement if it's something that can be resolved through discussion. Most of the time though I got betrayed because they tell on me to our mom.

Consider your sister maybe she is just very hungry and that soup is very tempting. She is not as matured as you , be patient to her because if you won't then who else would you expect you to understand her. Don't scold her but instead talk to her in a very gentle , kind way. Talk with a heart !

Hi AkamaruKei oh thats just not right she should have thought of you and your brother and sister too. At 31 she should ask if the rest of you have had your share of soup yet.You need to have a heart t o heart talk with big sister. Maybe she was just thoughtless but she should care enou gh to see all her siblings had some soup to eat too.

I would ask you to make to understand what are the duties and the things need to perform as a good sister. Show her a good role model and this may make her to try to be good as you need or as you wish.

Well, you can teach her how to share. Maybe she is still young and immature. As a sister, you must tell her what is good in a nice way of course wherein she will not get offended. That is what a sister is for. :-)

hahaha... whiner. this is a typical scene of a family....brothers and sisters... you have to be patient with your sister and you still have to love her regardless of what she did to you and your other sisters. it is okay you are the man of the house anyway. when we were younger we used to fight a lot (my sisters and my only brother).. one against one.. another against another. but now since we were all adults we don't fight anymore and yet we wish each other well and support one another very well through thick or thin... through problems and happiness. it is a passing stage and one day you are all just going to laugh at this experiences. hahaha like now, my older sister and my only brother used to fight a lot.. as in brawl. as in fist fighting. What my father did.... he was very upset, he commanded my sister and my brother to hug each other for 1 hour. hahahaha... they were really fighting as if they one of them should die... they hated each other so much.. then they hugged...and we, not included in the fight we just laughed secretly, we can not show to our father that we were laughing it might upset him again.. so we run out of the house and laughed.. but we teased them both.. we got back to the house and looked at them and went out burst of laughter outside. Now we used to remember that scene and we will all just laughed about it. You may be so upset now and so arrgh and grrr with one another but one day you will just laugh at these circumstances.

It's not your sister's job to feed you. You should learn to feed yourself. If she's lazy, then she's lazy and one day it'll slap her in the face, but it is not her responsibility to make sure you get fed.