my friend is mad at me
By savvyable
@savvyable (13)
United States
January 13, 2013 10:08pm CST
so a month and a have ago i started dating my boyfriend.it was sort of a serendipitous relationship however our friend kim will not talk to me because she wants him now i am 17 and my boyfriend will be 21 on the tenth of next month (note i am 18 2 months later) and kim is 24 she still talks to ryanbut as soon as i getthere she gets quiet and then leaves i didnt mean to make her this upset i didnt intend on upseting her at all but i guess i dont know what to say to her and i need help i wont break up with my boyfriend for the sake of this friendship because so far our relationship has been quiet amazing and lets be honest those kind of relationship onedoesnt want to pass up.
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4 responses
@iva75cpb (729)
• Bulgaria
14 Jan 13
If Kim is really your friend, she must understand. I wonder why didn't she say anything to you before, she is your friend and she must have told you in some girl to girl conversation that she liked him and wanted to be with him. What amazes me is that she started acting this way after you and your boyfriend started dating. I guess a private talk with her can clear things more.
Another thing - if you know she liked him before you started dating him, maybe you should have thought better before taking action. After all, she is your friend and you both should have talked about Ryan before any of you make a move...
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
14 Jan 13
I'm sorry to hear that your friend is mad at you. You should probably try and get together with her and have a heart to heart conversation. If she is truly your friend she will not try to take your boyfriend. She should be respectful of you while you are with him. If things don't work out between you and him then she could have that opportunity. I'm not sure how long you and her have been friends but you should try to keep the friendship in tact.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Jan 13
I cannot understand why your friend is mad at you.
If she is your friend she should be happy that you are happy with your boyfriend.
Maybe you should talk with her and ask her what really make her mad at you.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
14 Jan 13
Your friend seems to be forgetting that your her friend? Why would she feel bad if the guy is already your boyfriend? I think that she needs to respect you on that. She clearly is not being a good friend to you at this point. And I think that she is being selfish.
