to all moms here at mylot is this true?

Hi, Am a mother to a baby girl.... 1 and half year back....I went through this situation which is in d picture Damn i bared 12 hrs of labor pains and then went to c-section It's so painful but when i got my baby in my hands i forgot all d pain u know... Moms can bare and do anything for their children , no matter what happens

When I gave birth though I know the labor is so painful I just think of my baby inside me and I just want him to be safe when I deliver him so when he finally out and the nurses put my baby in my chest I can't help but cry because finally after all the pain and hardships I already saw him and feel him.. a mothers love is so unconditional..

it's not only about giving birth, it is also about rearing the kids.. and giving them unconditional patience and love.

I gave birth 5 and a half years ago. Yes, it is very painful. When I was a mom to be, some mothers told me that it hurts even more than kidney pain, which is the worst pain ever. Yes, it hurts very much, but it should not scare any mom to be. You will easily forget this pain, especially the first time you see your little treasure. It's worth it.

It is really difficult to be pregnant and deliver a baby. One's leg is buried in the ground when one is laboring. That is why mothers love their children so much. Mothers sacrifice from the very beginning to the end. We should all love our moms. :-)

Ouch.. no wonder my father loved my mother so much. she bore 10 of us. and I am the last she bore hehehe. hoorah to mothers of the world.

i'm unsure of the numbers regarding the pain too but yes, i do agree that the pain is indescribable. i had a bit of bone cut when i was delivering my first child and boy oh boy, the pain...but like many have said, the pain becomes nothing once we see the baby. that overrides it all. as for being protective, it's just ingrained in us i feel. mother's instinct and love for her children. one might think that i don't think i'd be like that too much, or my behaviour isn't like that, but when it comes to it, you definitely become like that. in fact, mothers even become petty for the smallest things if it's regarding their children hehehe

I have never experienced any pain as intense as that of childbirth. I gave birth to 4 boys. But enduring the pain was all worth it. You can never really know the satisfaction of being a mother if you have never given birth yourself.

Hi Tipay, you should learn some child psychology to correctly guide and nurse your child. There is nothing serious. You can learn it from you mother and aunty, as well. Congratulations for becoming mother for the first time.

I read that the pain of birth is the second after the burn by fire , sure the mother suffering from pain during the birth , so God asked us to take care of her .

Now I quite realized why my mother was very protective over me. Thanks for posting this discussion. :)

We are one brother and four sisters.I am the only son of my mother.I recall what my mother had once told me about the experience she had undergone while giving birth to me and my sisters.She told it was initially an inexplicable pain,intolerable,but equally inexplicable was the joy that she had when she saw the newborn.It is mother who keeps the world going.

At the time I was giving birth to all of my children, I felt excruciating pain. But once I held our baby in my arms and counted their fingers and toes and checked them all out to make sure they were healthy, all the pain went out of my mind! There's no greater experience than holding your child for the first time. I know with my youngest son, I bent the hospital rails, I was in so much pain!

Yes, I must say that a mother is very protective to her child because of what she suffered in giving birth to her child. As an elder siblings, I witnessed how my mother gave birth to my three younger brothers and how difficult it is. Same when she look after them and taking good care for them when they were already a baby. I thought she also done that with me when I was still a baby

I couldn't explain the pain I've gone through eight years ago when I gave birth to my son. It was really painful but when I saw my son and he was fine, I felt so happy. At last, after nine months of waiting, he was born in this world. He completed our family. It's because of the pain that's why I don't want to have another pregnancy; plus our financial status and the miscarriage I had once. I'm not sure if I'm still going to have another baby but I'm praying for a better life before having another angel in our lives. Thanks for sharing this picture. Happy myLotting. :)

Hi there, I haven't had any babies yet, but I do really want to have at least a couple one day. My mother has told me about the pain she used to have and my friends also said the same thing but all of the pain is gone after you hold this little thing for the first time. I want to have this moment. I want to be complete. Giving birth is not easy, but I believe it's the most worth-wanted moment for a mother. I can't imagine how painful it is and even won't try to imagine, but I am looking forward to it.

hmmmm.... I seem to be the only one that thinks labour and giving birth is not really painfull!! I have six children I never had much pain during labour, I still love my children unconditionally and they are the greatest thing in my world even though I never had pain bringing them into the world.

It is true that they need to be a mother for their child. No matter what, they need to protect their child and to love them without no condition. It is tested through the years for all mothers, it is real thing to value the essence of motherhood.

I had my baby 4 and 1/2 months ago and I still remember the pain. I didn't have an epidural, so all that pain was full on; I felt everything. I remember after it was done, I looked over at were they had my daughter. They were cleaning her off and measuring her and all that. I kept looking, straining to see her. They were stitching me up, but I didn't care. I just wanted to see her and after all that pain, I thought I deserved it. When I finally saw her, I decided it was worth every second of pain and every second that I was pregnant. It was worth the throwing up and the not being able to sleep. All of it was a small price to pay for my beautiful daughter.

Bringing a new life into this world is really a pleasure and exciting as soon as u see the end product of giving birth..At the very moment the mother touches her newly born baby,the mother start being protective to her child until the child richies his or her maturity.