A considerate lover

Well, if I ever meet one I would be sure to keep him. It's not easy finding someone so supportive in all aspects of life, realizing that being supportive doesn't only involve support in the bedroom but in everyday life as well. The day to day tasks of running a household, caring for children, etc...Those lovers/friends/husbands are all very hard to find in one package.

I never met a person like that also doubt I will ever be. Ofcourse in the past years I did think there was. Reality is that I do everything for others but I get nothing back in return. So I decided to invest in myself. This works way better plus it makes me more happy as before. BTW men and women communicate different, are different, so I doubt you will ever find someone who will uderstand you completely.

what do you mean when you say do stuff for each other? of course i would do things for the partner i love... i'll do anything that will make him happy.

Such lover is hard to find. This world as well as the people in it are imperfect. Good things don't last and the only way to be happy and fulfilled is to accept the way people are and accept changes. Being happy with someone is to accept him/her no matter who they are and who they will become.

I met mine and married him . Though it's too early to say we lived happily ever after but we're looking forward for this. Don't look for perfection just try to find for the right person.

If you want the person you're with to be considerate, then you should also be considerate. if you act like a jerk, you're going to attracted jerks.

Yes, i agree.. it is definitely hard to find someone like that these days. if i ever i get lucky enough to meet a person like that, then i would cherish him all my life.. Even if we might not end up together,i'd still be friends with him.

People in a relationship would do everything that they could just to prove their love for each other. Problems do come along the way, but if both understands what the other feel, has respect for the other, then their relationship will last a lifetime.

I agree with you. Over time people stop caring about how others feel. It is sad that this happens but it does. My husband and I have had our share of ups and downs in our relationship. But we are working to be better in tuned with one another's feelings. A couple has to continuously work at maintaining their relationship to keep being considerate of one another.

I hope that you will be able to find a man who is that way. I agree it is hard to find a person like that. I though am more loving,considerate, and caring towards my husband than he is to me. Some people are just not very thoughtful or they don't think of others before themselves. Keep looking for those types of traits and I hope you will find him.

Hi friend, it is really hard to get such kind of understanding and supporting lover in this modern days, if we have them really we are very lucky and we must reciprocate the same to them.