Who changed today
By didi13
@didi13 (2926)
Romania
January 20, 2013 5:36am CST
Imagine every day that we will be able to change those around us. As we do good in the bad, the ugly beautiful, faithful to the unfaithful, industrious of the lazy, patient of the rush. But I think increasingly more thoroughly we can not change anyone but ourselves.
Other day a friend was telling me that trying to engage people get happiness - a postmodern occupation has, however much we would arouse suspicion, it seems, however, works - that most of her clients are women who wish to turn, change their wives. "My husband cheating on me, and I want to do so, that you are my faithful". "My boyfriend asked me to marry him and I want to get them to take that step." "My husband does not help me at all in raising children and want to do something to redeem it in a responsible parent."
Sure it would be the simplest, we can turn to others get our happiness. But actually, we demiurges power. We can not do anything else than changing ourselves, accepting what we can not change or ... brave, to replace them with those that await us.
Besides their children, whom they grow and educate our own image - sometimes unwillingly it - you changed someone ever?
4 responses
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
20 Jan 13
yes, there could be no one better to change but ourselves. we can just show them the change in ourselves to motivate or encourage them to do the same. I don't know if I have changed someone... I am not sure. I don't tell them to change as to change I have no right to do that, but I can tell them that this attitude may result favorably.
@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
20 Jan 13
I think you have some points in this kind of perspective. If we cannot change people around us then it is better that we have to change ourselves. Be strong and stand up for yourselves and rights so that bad people would not abuse us. Sometimes when you are so kind people tend to abuse it. I decided to be firm and continue to do good and to love myself and my family. And to ignore people who love to bicker and devour one another.
