Reading over old discussions.....

Canada
January 21, 2013 3:31am CST
It's been awhile since i've been on mylot thought i should come back and give it another try..... Reading over old discussions tonight i did two similar discussions and didn't realize it being as it had been years between about a friend or not a friend....But am talking about two different friends.... The old discussion of the one friend that i found was very rude in her opinions and being a distant friend and put me down as a mother how ironic is it now that i've moved to a different city not only in the same city as this particular friend but she is now my neighbor??? Life is interesting to say the least.....
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@deazil (4747)
• United States
21 Jan 13
That must have been an unpleasant surprise. And she's still the same rude person I see, from your comments to others. Yes, life can be ahem, interesting. I don't know what I would do in that situation. I guess you can try to avoid her like the plague. I'm sure you know you're a much better person than her and don't need to be around her. I just feel really bad for you. Probably because that's something that would really bug me. I hope you have a much better temperament than me.
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@Mavic123456 (21007)
• Thailand
21 Jan 13
welcome back... and you have a lot of catching up to do.. check my answered discussions hahaha... night... bug you down a little there.. bzzzzzz...bzzzzz... bzzzzz...
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• Canada
21 Jan 13
laffin i sure do have alot of catching up to do huh hehehhehe.....My tolerance level of her was alot better in the beginning when she started i could let it bounce off me like a rubber ball lol......But lately it's getting to the point that I am having trouble doing that.....That I cringe when she asks if she can call......I just wish she would look in the mirror and realize that okay i'm accepting and respecting her as person and that is how she is why can't she give me the same in return that i'm thinking our friendships are gonna be going in other directions and ending before long....I'm completly fed up....
@deazil (4747)
• United States
21 Jan 13
Mavic, I will never catch up to you now. I've been remiss in my ninja duties and have left following you for too long. You're so prolific in your writing! You've been all over the place and you know I do have some of my own interests.:-) BlueAngelRS, I wouldn't let her call. But, that's me. I'm a very rude person when I don't like somebody and want them to go away. If I don't like a person because they've been rude, inconsiderate, etc. I have no respect for them. You could always ask her "Can't you tell by the look on my face that I want you to go away???" Maybe she'd get the hint.
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@Mavic123456 (21007)
• Thailand
21 Jan 13
Does she know that you found the old discussion where she showed how rude she is a person? "Life was like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get." surprise .. surprise....
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@deazil (4747)
• United States
21 Jan 13
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• Canada
21 Jan 13
laffin i've always like that saying from the movie Forrest Gump so true so true......She has no clue of the discussion I made about her as she is not on this site at all so i felt i could let loose on it so to say lol....
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• Canada
22 Jan 13
Feel free to let it rip the Blue! Don't hold back!
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• Canada
22 Jan 13
Yikes! Sorry to hear that people are being like that to you. I think your a really great friend, and I would have nothing but nice things to say about you! I know it's easier said than done, but try not to let it get to you! Keep your pretty head held high and disregard any negativity someone tries to throw your way! You ROCK!
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• Canada
22 Jan 13
Thanks hun that is my goal and one the best friends is you i hope you caught that lol......
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• Canada
22 Jan 13
Nope, I didn't catch it ... what am I supposed to be looking for exactly?
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@AmbiePam (57389)
• United States
27 Jan 13
Interesting, but not so much in a good way, huh.
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• Canada
28 Jan 13
Nope it hasn't been that way at all she is almost just as nosey as the other friends as i've spoken about i'm just glad i don't go out when she does......
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
Wow small world.. This could mean a new start with that person?:) Anyway, whatever people say about you, you know yourself better than they do. ;D Good luck!
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• Canada
21 Jan 13
Well said.....Yes I know me better then anyone....Words hurt sometimes but I know the person I am and want to be thanks for your response..
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@chiyosan (30213)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
oh yeah that's part of what surprises our life has for us. we can never be sure of relationships, of people whom we see as friends can turn out to be enemies after all. i think its just about how we would want it to be and its our decision afterall. :D
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• Canada
21 Jan 13
Very true life is sure full of surprises for us....I wish that were the case of me being able to be her friend again i can hardly stand being her neighbour she hasn't changed....
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@vernaC (1491)
• Romania
21 Jan 13
How interisting! Life..it's really full of surprises, isn't it! Maybe in the end you both will end up as bestfriends, who knows. You just have to give another chance of knowing each other.
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• Canada
21 Jan 13
Oh I so wish that were the case with this particular friend....She got even worse as a neighbour.....She is still stuck on her opinions....
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