extramarital affairs !
By manitou144xx
@manitou144xx (1)
Canada
September 5, 2006 5:32am CST
What do you think of extramarital affairs. after so many years of marriage and fidelity, that spark is gone. after you have tried to light it back without success. Do you divorce or fill the void with a person of the other gender satisfying each other keeping each other familly intact ? I don't see a problem do you ?
3 responses
@sereneladyj (284)
• United States
16 Sep 06
i was cheated on for 16 years. i got out when he got another woman pregnant and she announced it to the whole town. it hurt. it hurt a lot. don't add spice to your life by going elsewhere. either try to spice up your life on your own or with a therapist. if you try and it doesn't work please get out. i don't ever want anyone to feel the degradation i felt. it's bad for your ego. it makes you think something's wrong with you when your partner cheats on you. think about the choices you make and please put yourself in the other person's shoes before you make a decision. i hope this helps you make the right decision for you.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
16 Sep 06
I would have gotten out at the first infidelity. No reason you should stay with someone who cannot be faithful to you, especially if you fully dedicate your life to them.
@chalmette69 (3007)
• United States
15 Sep 06
You should get out of the marriage if you are no longer happy,it is not fair to your spouse for you to be sleeping around.
