when u feel they are laughing about ur life

@luisaR (452)
Philippines
January 22, 2013 6:47pm CST
I had a very close friend and we were strangers with each other now.She bumped with my other friend and told that she knew what is going on with me specifically the father of my kid got married to some1 else.I was shock of her knowledge on that.I just felt, guess she is laughing her butt out for my failures regarding anything.I know her.They got new issue about me, to tackle about and laugh about.I just hate the feeling.
12 responses
@Mavic123456 (21981)
• Thailand
23 Jan 13
why bother with them. you said you are strangers now. so what a heck... feeling bothersome on her feelings and "reactions" will just make her a winner. Why allow her to win she's a stranger. Move on..
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@luisaR (452)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
thank u mavic ;-)
23 Jan 13
hey look, dont sweat the small stuff. and consider them small stuff. plus, they are nothing to you right? this is your life! you control what goes on in it. people like to down people usually because they cant take the problems going on in their own life. or they aren't satisfied with who they are, so they pick on someone else. dont worry yourself about it. they dont matter. just laugh at them because they have you on their mind. you've got fans! :)
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@chiyosan (30188)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
people will talk. I mean they will always do that and some just love to make themselves feel beautiful about themseves when others are miserable. Id say dont let them see that and make them see your life is better and hat you are blessed with a wonderful kid right? So what in the world would they care at least you now know what kind of people are they and that you sure are alright... Just smile and dont mind them.
@luisaR (452)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
thank u chiyo ;-)
@jaiho2009 (39156)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
Ignore those kind of people. Show them you are not affected and go on with your life. Sometimes, the most ungrateful people are the ones who have more failures in life. They deny the fact that their life is much bitter than the other and resort to laughing at other's mistake without looking at their ownselves.
@luisaR (452)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
thank u jaiho ;-)
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
23 Jan 13
It is not nice to laugh at others mischiefs. However, we cannot make people do what we want them to do, nor change their bad feelings towards us. We all go through problems, but some of us forgets that and make fun of others problem. Just ignore her, one she will know how it feels when another person does that to her. Let her talk all she want for now. What does not kill you, will definitely make you stronger Dear. :)
@luisaR (452)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
thank u babyeve ;-)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 13
many people laughing my life. but i don't want to be confused because of that. they often laughing me because i can buy anything i want and they can bought anything they wanted.but i thank god because i don't have a lot of money so i keep try more and more to achive everything i want and my dream of course. and believe in your god everything gonna be alright.
@luisaR (452)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
thank u jiro ;-)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
I don't care what other people might say about me. What important is I know myself, and I didn't do anything that would harm other people.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
Don't be bothered with those worthless people. You can have your life the way you want it. It should not be based on how they can accept it or not. They are obviously not real good friends.
@luisaR (452)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
thank u jenny ;-)
@toyota4k (1208)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
Let them laugh it out. There not quite a few I know of, who got the karma from their careless rumor-mongering feeling as if they themselves are perfect or aren't prone to frustration and mistakes. Go on with your life and learn from your mistakes.
@luisaR (452)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
thank u toyota ;-)
@doroffee (4223)
• Hungary
23 Jan 13
Don't care about the opinion of people who laugh at the misery of someone else. They are the most miserable ones. Like I had a grade mate in high school, who was relatively okay to me, but I've heard how she laughed about my coughing condition (if there's something I can't help, that IS it) and that I was overly sweaty - on our prom rehearsals, it was awful, my hair was dripping from sweat, and my sides of my workout pants were sweaty, too... I heard her giggling about it behind my back, saying that I look like as if I peed myself (which wasn't even looking like thar, she just thought she was uberly funny) and that I dipped my head in a pool of sweat... it was cruel, but I knew her, and shrugged it off, because I knew she was a lowlife. She was so full of herself, and acted like she would be the next top notch politologist after she takes university... now? she dresses like a ghetto hooker (I'm pretty sure real politologists would laugh their butts off if they knew a girl looking like that said she wanted to be one of them) with cheap clothes, pointy trashy ghetto bling bling fake nails, a tramp stamp, a boyfriend who neglects him... a mediocre workplace in a nail salon as she dropped out of university and living in an awful rent. And she still tries to act as if she was the best you can get. I learnt not to give a damn about opinions of people like this.
@luisaR (452)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
hey dorofee, thank you for your comment. so much I need to reply to haha, the fastest is to say I appreciate it. ;-)
@Raine38 (11499)
• United States
23 Jan 13
I know that really hurts, and coming from a close friend (even though you guys are no longer that close), I know you expect a bit of courtesy with regards to your situation. But then, there really are people who like gloating over the misery or troubles of another person. This sort of gives them a feeling that they're better, that they're far off luckier. It feeds their need for self-validation. It is really quite pitiful, because she can't see the beauty in other people, only the bad. And instead of being happy for someone else who's doing good, there has to be problems and troubles before she becomes happy like that.
@luisaR (452)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
thank u raine ;-)
@shante2 (338)
• United States
23 Jan 13
Hi Luisar, Hi I am sorry to here what happen to you,I know that that could be heart breaking to know that someone has a peice of information about you that you never wanted them to know, could be terrible, and then on top of it to think that they could be enjoying your sorrows and things like this is awful, I sorry, all I can say is that it's going to be okay and try not to worry about what people think or say about you because people are going to laugh or talk about you regardless of if it's good or bad, people find anything to stump on ones ups and downs.
@luisaR (452)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
thank u shante ;-)
• India
23 Jan 13
Seriously!!! Do you really have to bother about "THEY" They are not living your struggles, so just smile and wave :)