when does friendship become love?
By ramayuen
@ramayuen (28)
Indonesia
January 25, 2013 8:33am CST
How does it happen? this transition from friendship to love? does it happen when you see a side of someone you've never see before? does it happen just out of the blue?
when does it happen?
7 responses
@aminul842700 (861)
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
25 Jan 13
A good friendship between a girl and a boy may be turned to love. It often happens. Have a very nice day.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
27 Jan 13
I guess the best foundation for any relationship is the friendship that has developed through time. We fall in love by chance and we never choose who we want to love, it just happens, and i guess only it is within us when we learn that we have fallen in love, even if it's a friend.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
It happens beyond our control.
We don't have any choice when it comes to love.
It comes naturally in time the least we expect it to happen.
Friendship often times turn into love because of compatibility and chemistry between two people.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
The transition from seeing your friend as merely a friend to somebody that you want to spend the rest of your life with is quite vague in a way. It has happened to me. I think I have been friends with that person for 5 months. Well, we always talked about our lives, we give each other advice. There was nothing special really aside from being in constant contact cause we were working at the same company. Then one day, he was not responding to my messages, even to my calls. I got worried. I let it pass for a week, thinking that maybe he lost his phone or something. He wasn't even going online. I got worried. I went to the extent of sending a message to her wife to ask what happened. But she never replied. Then 2 weeks after, I got a message from him saying that he had an operation and has been in the hospital for the past weeks. From that time on, I felt differently about him. Well, nothing flourish really, coz he is married. But I felt that I love him more than just a friend.
@Kashidanga1971 (1354)
• Bangladesh
25 Jan 13
When a couple starts to miss their friendship then its love. A couple can read their love in their face, eyes. But one should be a good reader. After having read a text LOL one should commit it by heart and respond to it likewise you have been responded.
@heaytheblogger (2876)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
You really can’t tell when the “Friend Zone” occurrence will happen in such friendship. Most friendship that falls as couples is caused by a deep interaction and feeling towards each other. Most especially friends that have a bad breakup and the other are concerned about his/her friend that results in a more deep relationship with one another.
@binaybbsr1 (375)
• India
25 Jan 13
transition from friendship to love is like melting of ice in freezer at the time of power failure. Though the environment has been made to keep the ice cool, still due to some outside causes, it melts. Similarly, after a long time friendship it is hard to maintain it due to other requirements and the relation is transferred to one level up n i.e. love. In fact friendship is only a subset of love.
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