People with amnesia

Philippines
January 28, 2013 3:03pm CST
I really hate people with amnesia. They are people who borrows things from you and then they will just forget about it. my cousin once borrowed this cd from me. it's an original cd and quite expensive in our country. she promised to return it as soon as she rips the audio files into the computer. after a week, she hasn't returned my cd. when i asked her,s he said she doesn't have my cd. the thing is she doesn't know if she really borrowed my cd. i hate this type of arguments because it's her word against mine and i really don't have physical proof that she borrowed my cd.
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6 responses
@roxanne1 (28)
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
hmm do you know already that she has amnesia? if it is, before it happened you should have record sound/video it for her for the time you need it back, then she can review it and maybe can help a bit. either way its charged to experience.
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
i didn't mean she really has amnesia (loss of memory). it's just that she forgot she borrowed something from me.
• India
29 Jan 13
Yes. I also have the same feelings about borrowers. Will you get back your CD soon. Good luck..
• Philippines
30 Jan 13
there really are borrowers who doesn't give importance tot he trust you've given them.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
28 Jan 13
Amnesia lol, I can't believe that she wouldn't remember borrowing it. That would get me so upset too. What you need to do next time is whoever borrows anything from you, you write up on a piece of paper the item being borrowed, by whom, the date and the promise of them returning by a certain date. Then have them sign it and you sign it too. Then this can't happen again.
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
i thought about it honestly. but it would be so ridiculous if i will ask them to sign a contract? in the first place, i would lent things to people i don't trust.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
Yeah, I know that feeling. I hate it when that happens. My mother in law could be that way sometimes. I mean, she borrows from me, that's fine. But she has all the means to buy things herself and yet she keeps on borrowing things and then forget that she had ever borrowed it. Geesh! She has lots of money that she rarely spends, and she gets to have lots of things in her house that aren't hers!
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
she didn't steal it. she borrowed it. but since she hasn't returned it yet, or maybe she lost it, i'm just so disappointed.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
28 Jan 13
The way you say it doesn't sound to me as if your cousin has amnesia. Sorry to say but I think she is just not interested in taking your stuff back. She doesn't care about it and to my opinion she is not the one you should borrow things.
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
i've known my cousin for a long time. she would definitely return something she borrowed from me. it's just that she's irresponsible to take care of something that i lent her. maybe she misplaced it somewhere.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
29 Jan 13
don't hate me I had temporary amnesia. When I met an accident I fell from my motorbike I couldn't remember how it happened, until now, I can't remember... Good thing that it was just about this accident and how did it happened. Today I borrowed my co workers, pen... I returned it.. wheww.. so I don't have amnesia. thanks for that. hmm to your discussion, maybe like me she had temporary amnesia. believe me until now I can not recall how I ended sleeping in the street for a few minutes... maybe it is the same for her too.... I don't know if this will still be cured for mine it was never cured. how about hypnosis.. maybe it can help your poor cousin.. and maybe she will remember that she borrowed your CD.
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
i didn't know there's that kind of amnesia.