Forgive and Forget?

as for me, if someone did me wrong and have asked for forgiveness and the truth and sincerity is there, i am able to move on and totally forget about the pain and wrong doing that person has given me, i can totally forgive the person but also if something wrong done to me was so painful and i cannot feel the sincerity of the person asking for it, it is hard for me to forgive the person, and the scar to my being is there caused by the pain of this wrong doing..it is there and i can always remember it...also i try my best to be a strong and better person, to prove those negative people that what they have caused me is not a hindrance for me to able to live a happy and better life..they must not control me but i control myself.

I feel the same way cuz you said it's normal for us to get pain as long as we aren't hurt by that.We should find proper ways to tell yourself choose more happiness rather than to complain and try to fight with others.So the same we feel much better.

those sayings are easier said than done. i don't think that we are meant to forget the wrongs that have been done to us. how could we forget them if we are supposed to learn from them. don't worry, it's normal to have the reaction to want to twinge every time you think about. the most important thing is not to live by what happened, but use it to not let others screws you like that.

It's hard to completely forget about the pain that you once felt. Like me, although I have accepted the reality of it all, but when I am reminded of what happened in the past, I would feel the pain all over again. So it is just managing your feelings, really. You just need to control your emotions. As time goes on, the intensity of the pain is not as bad as the first time you felt.

I just forget the past and move on.. I even forget anything about the person who has wronged me. I don't even like to see this person, smell this person or ever look at this person it is just no way.. so I forget everything, specially if the person who have hurt me is a insignificant one I don't really give a damn.. LOL