It's just another harsh reality of life
By hotsummer
@hotsummer (13835)
Philippines
January 30, 2013 1:26am CST
I'm no stranger to disappointments and hurt in life but I just feel so much vulnerable on the same things that can cause me hurt and sorrow. And so I have another dose of the disappointment in the today, it feels awful. But I should have learned from my past and I should have been more prepared with the situation.
I should be more strong specially I have been on the same situation for many times already. So I am just trying to have a clear mind and I just hope that I would be able to be more courageous and just accept the disappointments.
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6 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
30 Jan 13
If the same thing is keeping hurting/comming back on you, have a closer look at it. Disappointed/hurt we feel if we have expectations that are not realistic in our own personal case or... we Always make the same kind of mistake (mostly without knowing it). Things will change if you change, so have a closer look at what happened during these situations which are the same. What do they have in common? If you change that it won't happen again.
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@rotloi2 (321)
• Malaysia
30 Jan 13
life is full of suprise. stay strong and live the life as it given preciously by our creator. We are what we are. Perfect have to be defined. Everything must need to be gone through. No one born and know everything in this world. Accept the disappointment and move on
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
30 Jan 13
HI!
There is no need to feel disappointed if you got hurt or things did not turn out the way you wanted. Remember, there is always a 'tomorrow' which gives you opportunity to try again. We are humans and we fall and get up and move ahead.
You should learn from your past mistakes and try not to repeat your past mistakes. Also, count your blessings, when you feel depressed, this will help you lighten your mood.
By the way you have not mentioned what was the incident, which made your feel disappointed. Feel free to share and keep smiling.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
30 Jan 13
If you have been in the same situation before, and you felt bad about it, you should learn to do things and decide on things differently. Not unless you make a different decision the next time, then you would again be experiencing the same again.
@giggles721 (275)
• Philippines
30 Jan 13
I don't think life would be complete if there weren't disappointments. Maybe you're just reacting to the situation differently. Think of it as a blessing in disguise. When you get rejected or lied at, for example, it's not a mistake and you shouldn't get disappointed because it may be your destiny to find something way better than you expected. I recall reading this somewhere: precious gems only glistens when rubbed against rough stones. The same as people are only made better when we get confronted by harsh realities in life.
@STOUTjodee (3572)
• United States
30 Jan 13
I don't think anyone is a stranger to disappointments or by being hurt. We as humans have emotions and it is bound to happen. The important thing is that we learn from these situations and move forward. Don't dwell on the past.
