What do I need to prepare for the golden years?

Philippines
January 31, 2013 8:10am CST
It just struck me earlier today, when I saw an ad of two old people happily retiring in their well invested homes. Am I ready to grow old? I am not much into food supplements, vitamins and other pills claiming to boost health and immunity. I am not much into face creams that promises youthful smooth and supple skin. I only do 30mins to an hour of exercise a day, because I can't be away from the kids, too long. So, I wonder, if I'd be able to enjoy my old age, with what I've been doing at the present time. My husband and I dream of having more vacations and traveling to different places, when we retire -- around 50's (hopefully). By then, the kids would be done schooling, and would have lives of their own. But, I'm not sure if I would still be able to enjoy a lot of activities I wish to do, when I'm already at that age. Can you share tips and advises or experiences on what you're doing now, to be ready for old age. Or, do you even care to worry.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
1 Feb 13
It is important to prepare financially for retirement. Doesn't seem important to many people when they are young and starting a family. I took early retirement and was terribly bored at first. Financially we are in a position where I can enjoy my life and enjoy plenty of free time. Am in my middle 60's now and can get around like a youngster. Take care of the grandkids as needed, drive all over, visit a local casino, work on crafts, meet friends for lunch or dinner and overall enjoy my life. Retirement can be a fun time. I happen to be very fortunate to have married a man who knew how to invest, save and make a nice living. Overall, I don't consider myself old and our kids don't look at us like old folks. We spend time with them as well and have fun. So again I would suggest keeping ahead of the game of life and start saving or investing early.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
12 Feb 13
Sounds like you're on the right track. Good luck and enjoy.
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
Wow, I envy you, friend. That's the kind of life I'm talking about, that I'd want to enjoy when I hit that age. I trust my husband with his goals for the family. He's young, but he's always been a goal-oriented and passionate person. So, with my support, we'll fulfill our dreams together. He even writes down his goals at start of the year, and checks off what he has accomplished, and make notes on the rest that he needs to improve on. He's more likely to complete 9 out of 10 of his yearly goals. I'm the weaker one when it comes to that, so the most I can do is support him.
1 Feb 13
I think about retirement all the time! However, I am also a realist and understand that we are likely going to live well into our 80's (given the state of healthcare and advancements in medicine). So retirement in your 50's sounds great but creates lots of interesting problems. What to do with all the free time? Travel, hobbies etc all cost and will eat into your nest-egg in a hurry. Will I miss working? The interaction with people? A reason to get out of bed every morning? I would like to move from a high pressure career position to a simple job later in life.... when the demands of putting the kids through college, paying off the heavy mortgage etc are past, I still want to be out in the world, interacting with people but able to set a slower pace, flexible work hours and easy into my golden years - not just stop abruptly. I have heard that people whom are long-term workers that retire and move cold-turkey into the rocking chair on the porch tend to die early! You need a purpose to live. Find something that will keep you active, maybe even keep making some supplemental income to bolster your pension, SS or retirement income and enjoy a slower pace. Fit in your travel etc into this lifestyle and get the best of both.
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• Philippines
11 Feb 13
Hey, thanks for your insights. That's true, perhaps, it's not going to be very exciting if I just stop doing anything at retirement age. I remember husband telling me that his 70+ mother who is taking care of his brother's kids, would probably be weaker if the kids weren't with her. If our savings plan right now would be a success by that that time we reach 50-60 years old, then we don't really have to work, but probably have some business to keep us busy, and still have time to enjoy our hobbies - traveling.
@kourdapya (924)
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
Honestly, I am not thinking anything about retirement so far. I'm more focused on helping my parents, because they're old and they need my support. And also, I'm just enjoying my life on a daily basis. I have long term plans though, but now I'm only thankful that I have a social security when that time comes.
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
That's totally fine. Of course, if you only make enough to share for your parents' needs, then that is what matters most right now. I am also helping my mother, and sometimes my siblings. So, while I was still working, I wasn't able to save for my personal account, because I had bills to pay for my mother's house and her allowance and other debts to pay up. Good thing, before I resigned from work, I managed to clear up all my credit cards and loans.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
At my age now, I still feel that my life hasn't started yet! Can you believe that? I feel that I need a lot more to achieve before I could really say that I could retire and be happy and be satisfied. I still do a lot of things that a 20 or 30-year old woman does. I feel so young at heart. But I would also want to do some changes in my life coz, really, I am not getting any younger. So hopefully, I start eating healthier food, do some exercise and also would want to have vacations as well.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
You are younger than I am. But I think that doing the right choices with regards to health should really start early in life.
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
Right, we're not getting any younger, indeed. I just turned 30, my husband is 31, and we already have 2 kids, so we feel the urge to really take the future seriously.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
31 Jan 13
I think it's a good idea to plan and prepare if we can. Times are tough economically right now and it's hard to just be able to provide for our needs now. So I just try to do things small.Like I need to save more now. And then when I get older I will try and set money aside for retiring. I would like to travel more too. So I think that in some areas of life we have to sacrifice in order to do other things later.
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• Philippines
31 Jan 13
So what will you do to prepare for your travel plans when you retire. I mean, to make sure that you will really enjoy it. God forbid, but it won't be a very happy vacation if you're too ill to even walk, right. So, have you been doing anything to ensure a happy old age?
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
31 Jan 13
What you can do is save each month an amount for the time you are retired. Use a separate account for that and don't use the money. Besides of this I would advice you to travel now, live now. If you are young, dream of holidays, places you like to visit you will expire this all different as when you are old. Also it's not said you will be able to travel when you are old (perhaps you can't walk anymore or...). And who says you will get old? What is old btw? I think you should live now, now is already the future also and it's better to get old and have great memories of the things you have done, as to find out life just passed by, you have no great memories, you never did what you dreamed of and you saved, and saved and saved but that day did never come. So save for what you like to do and do it.
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• Philippines
11 Feb 13
You also have a point, but being idealistic about it, I'm sure everyone wants to be happy and healthy when they reach the golden years. Whether or not that time will come to us, it's still a good idea to prepare for it. Of course, being a lover of traveling and seeing different places, we enjoy going to places as much as we can, at the same time, still having enough to save for the future. However, for at least 20 more years, we can't be spending all our extra money on traveling because we still have kids to send to school, and I'm pretty sure school will cost a whole lot more when they reach college. While the family is young, we enjoy what we can, but with limits. If God graces us with a longer life, then I better be ready for it.
@sweety_81 (2124)
• India
11 Feb 13
Sometimes, it seems worrying whether we shall be able to plan much for our sunset years. With higher cost of living, higher education costs, Higher education fees, marriage expenses etc, things look so difficult. Yet, with financial planning and prudent management, we can do a lot more if required. We need not panic, and act accordingly.
@jugsjugs (12967)
31 Jan 13
I had made plans for the future, but what with all the bills going up I have no chance in saving towards the futur at all. I feel that there are a lot of people that made plans for their future, but with the way prices are going up on every thing we have no chance of looking further than a few months a head.
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
I think it depends on one's lifestyle. I know of many people who earns a lot, but because their daily expenses also go up, then they still don't have savings. I wonder how'll they'll manage their bills and debts when they lose their job. As for me and my husband, we promised to always live below our means, so we will always have enough to save and to share. We have set aside money for emergencies that may come, and also for our only luxury in life - which is traveling.
@lisacope (82)
1 Feb 13
50s is still young! It's unlikely you wouldn't be able to enjoy yourself at that age. There are even people in their 70s, 80s and 90s who climb mountains, run marathons etc. I heard about one man who sky dived on his 100th birthday. There are also people who have poor health, and they feel the effects of aging, of course. I think, basically, if you look after yourself, if you eat well (you don't NEED vitamin pills if you get them from food), exercise, and keep your mind active... you will stay young even when you're old :)
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
That's the thing -- I eat, but not much on vegetables. I think that's my biggest challenge. As for exercising, I'm starting to get in to a regular routine for that, and I'm enjoying it. I don't know, though, if I can still change my diet and put more green to it.