Does your family have different attitude or personality when it comes to others
By Metatronik
@Metatronik (6198)
Pasay, Philippines
February 3, 2013 1:51am CST
As always we are the only people who know the real attitude and personality of our own family since we are always with them everyday inside our home. We can determine of how they treated us and treated other people that at times it could be just fair or different. There are some instances that we have experienced other situation that other people won’t or would never see it. Especially in terms of negative attitude of how we are being treated at home that other people would never thought he/she can do that or worst case he won’t still believe even if you are already telling the truth. Others would have the guts to defend the other side of your family as if they know the whole truth and have seen everything.
Can you tell some instances that you have seen or encounter wherein your family has different treatment, attitude or personality when it comes to home and outside? What are the other instances that people can’t believe the true color of a person?
4 responses
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
10 Feb 13
Oh no, i think i have never seen them any different when there are other people around. my brother is talkative but that is the only difference because if we have guests at home he would just stay in his room or if he has to show himself, he would usually just be smiling and would not talk very much. =)
Other than my little brother everyone else is the same, and well usually my mom is just as she is, talkative and even often too opinionated. =)
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@Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
12 Feb 13
Good to hear that they have nice attitude it can be within the family and other people. Because not all people are like that. Others might say or think that other people are hypocrite because of their attitude, but still depends on case to case basis there are times that if they don't feel the person then their attitude is really different or it can be in case that a person is just being civil when it comes to other people.
@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
6 Feb 13
My father in law would go out of his way to give "presents" for favors just for him to be awarded a project. he doesn't mind how much he has to give a certain person fro as long as he is sure that the project will be given to his company. But with his children and grandchildren, he is so frugal.
@Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
8 Feb 13
What do you mean that he is frugal when it comes to children and grandchildren?
@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
8 Feb 13
Well, compared to my parents, they would give me and my siblings money even if we don't ask for it. And if ever we tell them that we would like to borrow some money from them, they would just give it instead. Unlike my father in law, you could not ask money from him. He would rather allow you to borrow money from him but with interest.
For the last 2 Christmases, he did not give any of his kids and his grandchildren any gift.
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@Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
8 Feb 13
whooaaa sounds kind of selfish and he is into money after all or a person who always wants something in return that is why he is doing good deeds. Then if he will allow you to borrow money then that is with interest? 
@ChoukseyMK (1044)
• India
7 Feb 13
we are 2 brothers and 2 sisters all have different attitude and personality. our thinking and personality never matches. my brother has accumulated a lot of wealth whilst i am a middle class man. because of we are different in many ways.
@Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
8 Feb 13
What I am asking is if your family has different attitude towards other people and to the family. Example my father has different attitude when it comes to other people and his friends, including as well to his relatives. They know him as generous, good person, easy to approach and other more good traits like to good to be true person. But that is not what he is in our family he is totally opposite and different of what they thought. He is selfish to us, hard to approach, hot headed and discouraging father, more so he is also rude and disrespectful man to the extent that he never respect me as a woman and a person.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
24 Feb 13
hi,
i think my sister and i have the same attitude that really different when it comes to other people,and this is for being stingy to other people,and that attitude we have both,but when it comes to the family we always give what can we have and share all we have.
