Perhaps, I should learn how to let go...

hi, i love this song "art of letting go" because the message of the song is really meaningful to me and i can really related to the song,its really hard to let go someone who marked in our heart deeply for a long time,but we can learn how to let go gradually with the help of others such as friends and family.

Are you leaving where airasheila? Letting go of someone or something is really hard. Sometimes I don't understand why do we have to let go of things/people in our loves. Can't we have both without sacrificing? But ofcourse there are always reasons in between that we can't control. Letting go is one big thing and another is moving on. Whatever it is that we go through, let us just pray that we have the courage to surpass all things.

It is really not that simple to let go of someone whom you have loved so much. It tales a lot of time and a strong will let yourself move on. I have been through this and I never thought I could ever be able to move on. I had to test myself in controlling myself for a week, then tried it for another week. Then one month, 3 months until it reached more than a year. It was such a difficult process that it seemed eternity of not getting out of the hole. Just let yourself mourn over the loss, then try to not think about your heartache too much, until it complete vanishes.

You would be amazed for learning to really let it go.I remember a song called"let it be",so it's been great for you to just feel good doing that.It's great to let you think so cuz that's the first step you already started.

Well, if you want to move on then just do the process of moving on. Moving on tales time and you should not force yourself to be moved on that easy. Take it little by little and the first thing for moving on is acceptance of the pain. Just stay positive and ask God to guide you whatever situation you have right now.