Demanding Friend.
By rubyroy
@rubyroy (824)
India
February 7, 2013 6:47am CST
A friend of mine is irritatingly demanding in her behavior.We had a common friend with whom I fell out of terms,due to some remarks of her to another person and this friend about my husband and a lady friend of ours.I had dealt the subject with this common friend and as a result we had almost stopped talking to this common friend. Almost six months passed after that, and two weeks ago this common friend invited me to her daughters wedding along with my friend.I had not yet made up my mind whether to attend it or not.But my friend was totally against it.Any way on that day I was traveling with another family friend of mine,who persuaded me to attend the marriage, since he was going that way I was forced to attend this common friend's daughters wedding.When my friend came to know about,she stopped talking to me and started to call me a shallow person. Do you think it is right,to keep the grudge and not attend the wedding because my friend doesn't like her or am I wrong in forgiving this common friend on this incident, and attending her daughters wedding?Please answer this question.
3 responses
@teotimoponcerosacena (1550)
• Philippines
7 Feb 13
You have your own choice of what to do in your life you are invited and it was an honest invitation. Your friend has nothing to do whatever personal decision you take. If she really treat you as a friend, then later she will understand you.
@ARIES1973 (11944)
• Legaspi, Philippines
16 Feb 13
I agree with teotimo on this one. You have your own choice and you should do things as you want as long as you think you are doing the right thing.
Have a nice day!
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
10 Feb 13
Hi!
I think you changed your mind too soon to attend your friend's daughter's marriage with whom you had not been interacting in the recent past.
All said and done, your friend would have become happy to see you in her daughter's marriage.
Hope she would reciprocate.
You could convince your other friend that you took a decision and attended the marriage and she should also forget about the past as you did.
@Mavic123456 (21891)
• Thailand
7 Feb 13
well you betrayed your other friend by attending to this person. but hey you are adults why would there be, my friend don't go to that, go to here. We are not in good terms with the person, don't talk to her. Although... she must had offended really BIG TIME. Why attend anyway? Does this mean you are willing to be friends with her again? I just wonder.
@Mavic123456 (21891)
• Thailand
7 Feb 13
then you dont have to feel bad about it.. and yes you are all mature to decide whether to go or not. You have a choice and you choose what you think is best. It is just a sign that you forgiven and forgotten the past... and that's very good. No grudges, no holding back.. everything will go in smooth flow...
