all friends leaving and now I will be alone.
February 7, 2013 8:52am CST
Hi, This year is very bad for me as all of my friends left my city one by one and finally by last 2 friends are leaving to UK and Dubai then I will have no one to talk to and no where to go.....its very sad for me and didn't able to understand what should I do.
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7 Feb 13
Hi Megh In our life friends will play a vital role at every stage. Based on our friends only our habits , nature , hobbies and every thing will be formed. But we can't stop the things which are going on in our life. Concentrate on your career and your future. In this case your friends are thinking well. I think they are planning their career, and for that they are moving far away from your city. So try to concentrate on some other things. Then you are not bored or worried about them. All the best.
7 Feb 13
The year just started so you can't say it's a very bad year for you already. Since you say you live in a city I assume you are not the only person living their after your friends leave or? You better start making new friends, explore the city, the people and go for it. Find the right spirit instead of sitting and complaining. You are surrounded by people, have internet, ever thought about how people feel who live on the country side miles away from everything witout internet? Without friends or acquintances at all?
• United States
11 Feb 13
Well, many times, this is something that happens as we get older. People tend to move away to get married, go to school, job promotion, etc. It is often hard because it leaves you feeling all alone, and many times you have to start over as well. But if you just take your time and find others who share the same interests, etc. in time everything else falls into place, and you feel better for sure.
1 Aug 18
i am sure you will get by and you also have your life there too. I can relate to you about this because I have friends who have gone abroad and basically there is only 2 of us left in the country. I initially felt so sad too that They are moving, finding what will make them happy, or change jobs because it is their dream job. but yeah i got stuck for a while too and i had thoughts of trying new things too, but going abroad was not part of my dream so i stayed on.It will get better for you my friend, you will just feel that now because of loneliness but soon you will realize and do what you want for your life.
12 Feb 13
It could be really unhappy to be all alone but you should not be feeling all that bad. You can still be able to communicate with them via email or Facebook or even through Skype. Coz sometimes, some people just have to leave , but it does not mean the end of your friendship. You should also be open to meeting new friends. Being sad shouldn't stop you from having new friends.
• United States
7 Feb 13
Hi Megh, People and friends come and go, so you know it right? you don't have to be sad, you will find new friend in the future. and you will be happy with that. just realize that, everything in this world always comes and go. but when they're gone you still have them in your heart.
8 Feb 13
Man it happens in life,you can't depend totally on them for your life.There are many things which you have to leave and stay without them.This time friends tommorow someone else.You have to increase the people surroounding you,you can't make it limited for only few peoples.I tell you how much i have suffered this thing what you call leaving from others,when I leaved my dear ones I use to cry at that time but then I learnt they were part only till then,now I had to move on so just enjoy man. have a good life ahead.
8 Feb 13
in school day I am very quiet type and have only 1 friend that I chat a lot, now I still contact him for chit-chat. why? he have graduate and still not working, so is free time a lot. he is the same type as me too. when I alone, what I do is to do blogging or now i do come to mylot instead of facebook.