which one will you choose.... your father or your mother?

Indonesia
February 8, 2013 5:03am CST
every family has definitely want his family to walk in harmony with nothing unexpected happens. But sometimes the harmony that should bother with little things such as the different characters that are owned by the father and the mother that can results in a quarrel. If they fight everyday it possible there will be a divorce. If that happens who would you choose to go with you? your father or your mother?
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@Ashu1970 (63)
• India
15 Feb 13
Fortunately by the grace of god, I have not faced a situation where I have to choose between father and mother. But I think that totally depends on the nature of an individual. When you are growing up you make certain assessments and these are instrumental while making such choice.
@lil_toni (206)
13 Feb 13
Choosing between my parents is very hard. Much worst if it involves getting a divorce. And I don't want it to happen. I'm sure none of us doesn't want it to happen. I'm closer to my mom because when my dad was still working, he only stays in our house like 3-5 days a month because he was assigned to different places. And so my mom has to do all the household chores and also taking care of us. My mom was the only whom I can talk with. But now that my father is already with us, I'm also starting to talk to him more to become closer to him.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
10 Feb 13
my parents have been separated since i was twelve so iguess w no longer id see anymore quarrels hege but bfore that we have not seen them fight with each other. They would always close the doorand fight wirth each othwr without us hearing about it. But al three of us siblings ar close with my moher so in any case... Or if our lives woud haave turned out differwntly we would definitely. Choose our mother and not our dad.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
13 Feb 13
it`s hard to choose like that furqon but as moslem, Islam admit the role of mother.. Our prophet had said mother 3 times and then father.. and you can understand the meaning of Hadist.. right?
• India
11 Feb 13
From the day you are born, you are more with your mother than your father. But they both love their children equally. When question comes to chossing either one then go with the right person. I mean in the quarrel whom you feel is on the correct track.
• India
12 Feb 13
It is depends to nature of mother and father that which one is match my nature. for me I prefer to be with both of them but in that kind of case I prefer to be with my mom.
@else22 (4317)
• India
8 Feb 13
I have already lost my parents.First my father expired and,within a few years,my mother.But fortunately as long as long as they were alive,I did not have to choose between the two options given by you.They both loved each other.I never saw them quarrelling with each other.Had I have to choose between the two options,it would have been a difficult choice for me.I would not have liked to lose any of them.Although my father was very strict,but I could feel his love for me.And my mother was an innocent lady who was devoted to her children and our father.So it would have been a tough choice,at least for me.Hope, you get me.
@gamyam (530)
• Hyderabad, India
9 Feb 13
I can say in a single word that we are all in need of mother than father. If you are son, you will chose your mother to take care of you. If you are a daughter, you can chose father to care of you... Actually we need both of them all the times, but if a certain situation comes like this, we have to select mother for more purposes, also it is quite preferable in my voice...