ever tryied to make a light of your inner when you are hopeless?
@extremefun4fun (2908)
India
February 11, 2013 4:13am CST
Maybe i am talking from end of hell in my life. I have spend a hard life with sorrows and there is sometimes that totaly i have lost my hopes and decided wrong to finish this life. But have you ever think that always light comes up when you are in the deepest darkness....? morning cames always after darkness of night?
so I repeated that. with a mistake I live with a one who has shadow of darkness and I think till that person is alive and as long as I am alive I should see him and live with him? is not it? so I decided to not change him but help myself to change, this is also a way black and white, friend and enemy, they can live together,
I want to make a little heaven from hell that i live in and I am sure I can do it. I have tried to think good to affirm good and absolutly it is bringing some changes to that person...
what do you do in the most difficult time of your life? what is your deccision when you beome hopeless?
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4 responses
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
12 Feb 13
ending your life is never the answer if you are involved with a person that you are going no where with then its time to move on God did not put us on the earth to be un happy
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
12 Feb 13
No I would never end my life because i am unhappy... I am doing my best to make a little light for darkness and I am sure when light appear the dark side will disapear.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
12 Feb 13
good to hear something you can do is place things that give you the most joy around you in every room so you focus on them
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
I have not had a good start of the year either. I had been cranky because I was feeling hopeless. Too much delays seem to be going on in my life and it was very frustrating. How I managed to go on was that I just continued doing what I have been doing and keep myself busy as usual instead of letting my negative thoughts be a cause of my inactivity. I realized that if I kept sulking I don't accomplish a lot. I just had to deal with delays by accepting them.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
12 Feb 13
You can make all changes into your life with your power and your positive thinking.
Stop negative thought cause they effect fast. replace all of those with finding some powerful and energetic words and then repeat them whenever and as much as you can. I am sure that you will be the most happy one with your powerful words and mind.
@prashu228 (37518)
• India
11 Feb 13
Hi
Your discussions shows(sorry if i am wrong) your are in some pain.
Dont worry as you said there is good and bad both in the society.
we experience good after bad, as day after dark.
Yes there are many such incidents where i felt hopeless and miserable. But gained hope though prayers and reading bible. Just should make our selves calm and stop thinking of any problem if its bothering us too much. That's the best way to do until we get rid of all the problems. we can certainly see light .
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
12 Feb 13
Thank you for you understand my pain and for your nice advice. praying is giving us enery and when our energy increase we feel much better. yes. that is the good way.
@rajendraingale (289)
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
12 Feb 13
hello there,
well,the first thing which came into my mind after reading you discussion is ,how can you keep your name so nice when you can talk on such a different topic.
Anyways,Life has always been so, not for you ,but for everyone.It will never give you what you want so easily,So one has to go through rough time to achieve something good.Giving up is really not a right thing to do,That is the point when you have lost everything and you are not willing to fight.
Humans are prone to mistake,and its nothing to be scared or ashamed of,As mistakes are the first teacher to teach you how to improve yourself. Doesn't really matter if its a person or something else,someway or the other they teach you a lesson for a life time .
There is a time when you have no hope ,you feel as if you have lost everything and nothing left to live for,but on the contrary there are new things coming your way,for which you should be ready to welcome it with a smile.
Take Care
Raj
